Drseussgrrl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Ok all the heartache aside. Fiance of 7 years and she's 19? How old were the both of you when you got together?
Author OnceInLove92 Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Ok all the heartache aside. Fiance of 7 years and she's 19? How old were the both of you when you got together? Yeah, I know. We were extremely young. She was 13 and I was 14.
KatZee Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Hey, thanks a lot bluefairy! It really means a LOT. Yeah, I've definitely kept away from her, blocked her from everything, and blocked MYSELF from her stuff, just so I can't tempt myself into looking at her and her new "love". Here's that video that I made for her, btw if you ever wonder. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3PcWovlXzs I really couldn't even get through half of that video without wanting to vomit. Not because your video was crappy, or cheesy, or any of that. But because halfway through your list, I just couldn't believe that this girl who you describe above is even one bit of any of those things you said. From your first post she sounds like a spoiled brat. A self-entitled, unappreciative, and shallow bitch. She always thinks of you? YEAH OK! When her picture flashed on the video that's when it clicked. She looks like everything I said she was. She doesn't look like a "nice girl" at all. She's a complete twat napkin and honestly if I had a boyfriend that did even one HALF of the things you did for her I'd make sure to hold on to him so tight. My ex never did ANY of those things you did. Do you think he ever thought to be so thoughtful to make a video for me? Or bent over backwards for me at all? NEVER. What you are, is what girls and women should strive to have in their relationships. This girl is pure trash, and you sir, have dodged a huge bullet here. Believe me. You may love her and miss her, but a lifetime with this person would have done nothing but suck the soul out of your withering body. 2
KatZee Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I'm also kind of confused. You say that this just happened, you guys have been together 7 years, and you were both 13 and 14 when you got together... So why does your Youtube channel say you're 32?
Author OnceInLove92 Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 I'm also kind of confused. You say that this just happened, you guys have been together 7 years, and you were both 13 and 14 when you got together... So why does your Youtube channel say you're 32? My age on youtube isnt right then. Lol. I'm 20 years old. But thanks for the positive input!
Chi townD Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 You know...sometimes I have a hard time giving advice without getting the full story of the demise of a relationship. There's always two sides of a story and we just normally get just one side. So, I just go with the ethos that the dumpee probably wasn't man or woman of the year; so, I just work on the fact that a person can be blamed for 50% of the problems in the relationship. However, in your case, for a guy to take the time to make a video like that and post it for the entire world to see. That tells me that this wasn't your fault. Sure, you may have had some little problems here and there, but what relationship hasn't? She was making excuses. Convincing herself that the demise of the relationship was entirely your fault. That she cheated on you with your best friend was your fault. So she doesn't have to feel guilty about what she did because she convinced herself that it wasn't her fault. Which is selfish and mean as hell. This was the ultimate betrayal. Not only did you lose a girlfriend, but you also lost a best friend. She took that from you for her own selfish gains. This bitch isn't worth your time. AND I do mean BITCH!!!! Time to heal and move on. And you need to keep to a strong NC. I have a feeling that sooner or later, she's going to mature a little and MAYBE some guilt will creep in. So, she will reach out to you. Ignore it. 1
Author OnceInLove92 Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 Thanks everyone for your great input!! You guys are great! This has definitely been helping me through things, helping me realize that it's NOT my fault. Now I just have to deal with the feelings of loneliness :/ I mean I've been hanging with friends SO much more, but that feeling of security is gone.
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