soulseek Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 So, Ive been hanging out with this guy for about four weeks now. Unfortunately, due to our schedules ive only been able to see him on weekends. Ive met most of his friends, and hes met a few of mine. He is unlike any guy ive ever bet before, where i get the impression he'd do a lot of things for me (ie. not go to the club, go to where my friends are at, stay at home on a friday night, cook me breakfast etc.) I have been intimate with him, which i admit that I am not proud of -- but it happened and ive grown to be content. When we go out in public he is sure to hold my hand and give me affection (in front of his friends, and mine). Before hes asked me why im not giving him the same affection.. he asked if i was embarrassed.. SO. This past weekend he was drunk, and i was sober at a concert.. He kept asking me if i would be his girl. Because he was drunk i was just kind of laughing and not replying. I've always wondered what his intentions were, and ive had problems with guys in the past just using me as someone to waste time with/ hang out with/ be affectionate with. However, i started shaking my head and saying no to just play it off cool.. His response was something along the lines of "im not asking you to date me dont worry". He knows that i have other options for guys, but i havent taken up any offers. I guess ive made it seem like im a hot commodity.. I know for a fact that he doesnt have any other girls chasing him. so what is the difference between will you be my girl? and asking someone to be official? Or what the heck just happened..... Nothing was said the next about anything that happened that night. I figured he was drunk and couldnt remember anything as it was...
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