rocoloco Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Hello I'm new. I also had a first date today with a girl I've met in a chatroom. Then we were texting (also some kinky stuff...) each other for about 7 months, also exchange photos.. Today we had a nice walk and talk without that awkward silence...We also touched each other a little bit for just silly reasons... In the end she gave me a hug and told me to call her after I get back (I'm going abroad in three days for 5 months). Silly me I asked her If she wants to meet in those three days again, but she said she probably won't have the time because she has practices and school (something like that). But then again the final thing she said call me when you get back. What do you think? Is this a good sign? Did I screw up asking her If she wants to meet in those three days?
nowwhatnow Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 if i had to guess, she probably just doesn't want to get attached before you leave. best bet is to see where you are at when you get back. if you want you can try and stay in contact with her when you are abroad through messaging or something. maybe gauge her level of interest? 1
Author rocoloco Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 I'm quite inexperienced, but I know I shouldn't show her that I'm interested to much. So sms would be a nice thing? Or should I wait for her to contact me first? Also I've remembered now that when we were sitting on a bench she was twirling her hair, had crossed legs and also draw some attention to them... these are good signs I know, but I have this feeling that I shouldn't ask her to meet till I'm still home. she probably just doesn't want to get attached before you leave that would be a dream , but how likely really is that?
Emilia Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 You have only met her once and you are going away for 5 months. Focus on your trip, enjoy it, you can send her emails that keep her up to date with your new experiences, like a newsletter if you want. Don't put too much expectation into this though. You have only met her once, it's best for both of you if you take it easy (though I realise I'm talking to a brick wall here)
Author rocoloco Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 oh for now I have no expectations, Im looking forward to my trip and Im glad that I'm single now. Just tryin to figure her out ...
Emilia Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I'd say see how you get on while you are away.
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