kk79 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Basically my 16yr old daughter met this boy at beginning of August...he recently turned 20 tho doesn't look or act like his age. They both hit it off and had lots in common but he felt the age difference was a concern. She was going on holiday for 2 weeks 5 days after they met so they flirted alot and kissed. Whilst she was away he found himself a gf and updated his fb status to say they got together on the day of my daughters birthday?? strange as he's not the sort of boy who really went out with girls never mind meet one then the next day which was my daughter birthday broadcast it on fb??? My daughter came home from holiday and played it cool...saying good luck, im fine. since then he texts every morning day and before bed to make conversation with her. hes been over to the house, took her out a run in the car, to walk his dog, she said he asked for a hug. but never made a move or suggested anything else. yesterday she deleted him and sent a message saying she really liked him but felt she couldnt just be friends with him. he then messaged my other daughter asking how she was etc...basically just wanting to chat to her then he was quizzing about her sister etc. he popped up again last night asked to chat to her so she replied. she asked how he was and his reply was.....good had a very good birthday today and tonight...so she said good glad to hear it. what did you do? he replied...lay about with my gf at her house then mines best night. my daughter said oh thot you meant you did something special for your birthday! What is this boy all about? Surely if he didnt want to be with my daughter he would ignore and not really keep in contact?? Why does he mention his gf as much as he can? Can anyone help me...?
patrick27 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 The words "inconsiderate" and "insensitive" come to mind at first. He's going to find out the hard way that what he's doing is no way to treat an ex. 1
Author kk79 Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 Exactly!! I do think he likes my daughter but do you think he deliberately got this girl on the day of my daughters birthday to spark a reaction??? hes been with this new girl for 1 month now. Why still keep daily contact and visits??? why talk about this girl to my daughter??? im confused never mind my daughter!
patrick27 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Perhaps he did get that girl to spark a reaction. By coming around after she blocked him suggests to me that he likes your daughter. His actions are very immature. Is he prone to temper issues? 1
Author kk79 Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 Im not sure...thb hes seems a nice decent boy but he seems a lot more immature than his years. Hes not very confident and seems the jealous type (not in a bad way) im not saying he doesnt like the gf...obv he must if hes with her a month now....but why keep on at my daughter and asking her for a hug sending lovehearts at the end of texts. My daughter is playing it very cool tho...even tho she is mad about him but I dunno???
Dblock10 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 this sounds like a crazy story. but he is using your daughter as a back up. backburner incase the new light goes out. simple 2
KatZee Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Surely if he didnt want to be with my daughter he would ignore and not really keep in contact?? Why does he mention his gf as much as he can? Can anyone help me...? Most of us here have been around the block to know what this means... I really hope you put on your "mom pants" and start cracking down a bit with this kid. Surely nothing. He clearly wants his cake and to eat it too. Maybe he's doing it to make your daughter jealous. Maybe he's just an idiot. Either way if your daughter really likes this guy she needs to be taught (by you) that this is not the way boys show they like girls. This is not a boy being respectful of your daughter. He most certainly isn't a "nice boy." He sounds like a classic player. leading your daughter on then getting a girlfriend in a day, and now contacting your daughter again bragging about it. She's 15 and highly impressionable and extremely naive. There is nothing good about this kid at all. Crazy story indeed. 1
Author kk79 Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 I totally agree...so difficult having girls this is my first daughter...and the first boy she has really shown interest in. yes it was myself who encouraged her to delete him but with him now contacting my other daughter etc she sees it as he must like her?? obviously i said if he liked you that much he would dump the gf....not amused
Dblock10 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 what i find amazing is you found LS for this. amazing! yeah teach and preach away, im sure from the responses your D has given back she knows whats up 1
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