alicia24 Posted July 23, 2004 Posted July 23, 2004 I am dating this really great guy./ He is so sweet and considerate and cares about me very much. We have both been through really bad past relationships so we are taking it slow. We've been dating for about 4 months. He has a five year old daughter and I have not met her yet. Not even introduced as a friend. When he has her on his visitation days I have to make sure I leave before she comes over. One time I wanted to swing by his house while his daughter was there to pick a movie I left there, but he said he would prefer If I waited until he took his daughter home and then i could stop by. Is this normal? Is there a normal time frame for meeting his child? I'm confused? This is the first person I ever dated with a child.
HoldOn Posted July 23, 2004 Posted July 23, 2004 I would say it's very responsible of him. It is very confusing for children to have a parade of new "mommies" coming through the house. He needs to make sure that your relationship is serious. Give him more time. If the relationship becomes more serious you will naturally meet her. I wouldn't push this if I were you. Then when you do get to meet her, you'll know that it's really special.
tigeress Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 I agree with HoldOn. His first committment is to his daughter. I salute him for being a resposible father. Wait awhile. Aproach the subject again in a few months.
Author alicia24 Posted July 24, 2004 Author Posted July 24, 2004 Thank you./ I will take your advice./ I have never dated a guy with kids so I wasnt sure if this was the norm
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