I'm nuts Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 i thought it would make me happy and i feel stupid now. No need to feel stupid, you did what you thought was right, you don't know what he really thinks, I would be happy to receive am I Virgo but then I don't believe all that stuff. I was a happy bunny when I got mine, I was hoping all day for it, it came, I felt so happy. I just replied with a simple thank you, but our situation would be miles different to yours, but the thoughts are the same.
Floored Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 i thought it would make me happy and i feel stupid now. it will not change anything.. he is just going to look at it (text and card), probably read it and put the card on his desk only for it to be mixed up with other paperwork. he will go back to his daily life of moving on and talking to the new girl in his life... it's pointless if you still love a person. In the long run, I think you did what was right by you. If you hadn't sent the card or wished him a happy birthday, I think you'd be wondering today and for a long time if you should wish him a belated one, which ups the awkward and exposure factor a few notches. You sent it, that took courage. You don't feel happy now, but it kind of seems like the caring person that you are needed to do it. Maybe the disappointment of how it went will help you move ever forward on your path to being whole again. Also, did anyone else find the first four posts kind of funny in a dark way? I just pictured one single douchebag ruining four hearts, and they were all chiming in on his birthday.
Dblock10 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Also, did anyone else find the first four posts kind of funny in a dark way? I just pictured one single douchebag ruining four hearts, and they were all chiming in on his birthday. haha the same guy! that would be funny actually if that happened
Author bluefairy812 Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 No need to feel stupid, you did what you thought was right, you don't know what he really thinks, I would be happy to receive am I Virgo but then I don't believe all that stuff. I was a happy bunny when I got mine, I was hoping all day for it, it came, I felt so happy. I just replied with a simple thank you, but our situation would be miles different to yours, but the thoughts are the same. awww, so you received a card too? thanks for your words, it brings me some comfort, even though deep down inside i wish he would change his mind you sound like my ex, he never believed in astrology lol.
Author bluefairy812 Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 In the long run, I think you did what was right by you. If you hadn't sent the card or wished him a happy birthday, I think you'd be wondering today and for a long time if you should wish him a belated one, which ups the awkward and exposure factor a few notches. You sent it, that took courage. You don't feel happy now, but it kind of seems like the caring person that you are needed to do it. Maybe the disappointment of how it went will help you move ever forward on your path to being whole again. Also, did anyone else find the first four posts kind of funny in a dark way? I just pictured one single douchebag ruining four hearts, and they were all chiming in on his birthday. thanks so much. i do agree it would've been in the back of my mind for sure. i'm a girl, so ofcourse, i tend to over think the situation too much. in a way i'm glad i did it ( my heart feels this way) but my head says the text should've been enough. but what's done is done you know? i wish it was enough for him to see i care and would do anything for him to come back. but maybe this is the final nail on the coffin and i can move on haha and i loved that i wasn't the only one with an unpleasable virgo!
I'm nuts Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 awww, so you received a card too? thanks for your words, it brings me some comfort, even though deep down inside i wish he would change his mind you sound like my ex, he never believed in astrology lol. I received a email and I was very very happy to receive it because I love that girl I always will, I just replied to her with a thank you nothing more, I just want her to think I don't really care or think about her ( but I do) Astrology is nonsense Kindness never goes unnoticed, it is a good quality to have.
Floored Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 thanks so much. i do agree it would've been in the back of my mind for sure. i'm a girl, so ofcourse, i tend to over think the situation too much. in a way i'm glad i did it ( my heart feels this way) but my head says the text should've been enough. but what's done is done you know? i wish it was enough for him to see i care and would do anything for him to come back. It is enough to show you care, and to show that you still aren't ashamed to let him know at appropriate moments; it's more a matter of him being receptive to that, which he isn't. It's kind of selfish to think about it like this, but what's important here is that you did what was right for you on his birthday. You showed that you cared, you won't regret that. but maybe this is the final nail on the coffin and i can move on Aw, we both know there are plenty more nails to go. Cheer up though- you have a full year before you have to deal with that day again. If I was a betting man, and I am, I would say you won't care enough to give him so much as a birthday fart next time around.
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