Sun Devil Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Over the past few days I have gotten several numbers from girls on my campus. I plan on building having them become attracted to me before I bring them on a date. How do I do this?
Author Sun Devil Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 Anyone going to help me out?
SJC2008 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Be yourself that's how. You should never have to consciously make a woman attracted toward you, she either is or isn't. Now some men can "build" but why would you want to? If you do this to a woman who isn't initially attracted to you then you burden yourself of keeping the attraction. 1
jobaba Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 I think the question you are asking is how to hook a woman. The last woman I dated, I believe that if I had acted differently on the first date, she would have rejected me. I do believe there is way to emotionally hook a woman who has no or little initial attraction to you, but it is a minority of women, usually those that rely heavily on emotions to gauge their attraction. It is not easy either. So, in a. Nutshell... - be funny and cocky, almost arrogant but not quite - make sure you make all the decisions on the date and be domineering, like, "i'm taking you out Friday night." Instead of "are you free anytime the next month?" -be sure of yourself and act like you could get another woman tmrw if she doesn't want you There's much written about the subject. Lookit up.
ThaWholigan Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Be yourself that's how. You should never have to consciously make a woman attracted toward you, she either is or isn't. Now some men can "build" but why would you want to? If you do this to a woman who isn't initially attracted to you then you burden yourself of keeping the attraction. I agree with this - to an extent. Being yourself essentially works depending on how you express yourself, but if you are prone to messing up attraction at crucial stages, then it serves your purpose to learn exactly how to build upon the attraction that is there without messing it up. This is why so many guys ask why the girl they are dating doesn't want to know anymore or is flaking - sometimes it because the guys have done something that turned the girl off. It's probably for the best, but you never know - that one time you messed up you could have missed out, or she could have missed out. Even when there is initial attraction, you have to learn how to maintain it - it doesn't always stay that way. ------------------------------------------------ OP, you have to understand the girls you are dealing with on a slightly deeper level. Learn how to talk to girls in a colorful and illustrative manner if she's inclined that way. If she's a more straight forward girl, then you should be more direct in your speech. Know how to calibrate both emotionally and physically to the girl you're talking to. If she likes you back, she will reciprocate, and then you can proceed from there. It's more to do with the person you are, and how you express that in the sequence of attraction, but also how she responds, and how you both mesh together.
C-V-L Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Over the past few days I have gotten several numbers from girls on my campus. I plan on building having them become attracted to me before I bring them on a date. How do I do this? kiss them! 1
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