Harmonie Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 (edited) This guy I have been seeing for two and a half months... He says that he likes, cares, admires and respects me but does not want a commitment right now. He has done things like remembering my favorite chocolates and bringing that over for me as a treat. Even though he did eat half of them himself. LoL. When we were sitting on my couch watching TV he would stroke my hair and face in a really comforting way. It was nice. That is the feeling I got when he did that. Also I caught him watching me sleep while we were lying in bed together after sex. Smiled at him. He smiled back. It was really sweet. He was also asking me what my favorite flowers were the next day. I was not expecting that one at all. He did all this the last time we hung out. We do out in public. I make sure we go out and do things so we can bond and get to know each other and he is all up for that. Everything he pays for. This guy has even has rang me a few times and the last time we spoke he even mentions that I should not be afraid to talk about things with him. A little confused because guys that just want sex usually don't go to this much effort. Let alone tell you that they like, care, admire and respect you. Edited September 16, 2012 by Harmonie
Balzac Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Are you using exclusive and commitment as equals?
Author Harmonie Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 I think so. I guess I better talk to him a bit more about things. Just annoyed that I really like him. His response kind of threw me for a bit. His actions does show that he cares though...
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