kaylan Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 (edited) OP, with all the drama that could come from this, it makes no sense why a logical guy in his 20s would be hooking up with a teenager. I actually had a high school senior lie to me about her age last summer...and once I found out how old she was, I made sure things didnt proceed any further. Id back off dude...even if she contacts you.Yes, confused. This. lmao...OP...being tight has nothing to do with whether or not a girl gets around. Trust me this girl gets around more than you would like to think. And this is why guys like you will never get better with women. You even have young high school girls calling all the shots, while you cannot even land women your own age and make numerous insecure threads on a forum. Chasing young chicks who dont even think like adults, wont give you the practice and confidence you need to do well with grown women. Edited September 16, 2012 by kaylan 1
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 OP, with all the drama that could come from this, it makes no sense why a logical guy in his 20s would be hooking up with a teenager. I actually had a high school senior lie to me about her age last summer...and once I found out how old she was, I made sure things didnt proceed any further. Id back off dude...even if she contacts you. This. lmao...OP...being tight has nothing to do with whether or not a girl gets around. Trust me this girl gets around more than you would like to think. And this is why guys like you will never get better with women. You even have young high school girls calling all the shots, while you cannot even land women your own age and make numerous insecure threads on a forum. Chasing young chicks who dont even think like adults, wont give you the practice and confidence you need to do well with grown women. But I get laid all the time:D (serious) But I have never been pursued. EVER. And I never lay someone IDEAL. I am strictly no strings attached, I live in the city where as long as you are a normal human being, you will get laid. Sex is everywhere in this city.
123321 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Chasing young chicks who dont even think like adults, wont give you the practice and confidence you need to do well with grown women. I'm not looking for practice or doing a survey on how women think when I (used to) go out on the hunt, but what he's doing is CRIMINAL. I don't have to agree with the law to obey it.
kaylan Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I'm not looking for practice or doing a survey on how women think when I (used to) go out on the hunt, but what he's doing is CRIMINAL. I don't have to agree with the law to obey it. I was addressing OP when I was talking about getting practice in. As the OP has made threads before that shows he doesnt do too well with women just yet. I agree about the law part....this will make things dicey....but I do agree with the law too. Theres a reason it exists. Guys need to be smarter than this. Sadly many cannot think separately from their penises.
kaylan Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 But I get laid all the time:DWhich is why youve created numerous threads asking people to critique your physical appearance. A guy whos getting laid all the time wouldnt be as insecure as you are. (serious) But I have never been pursued. EVER. And I never lay someone IDEAL. I am strictly no strings attached, I live in the city where as long as you are a normal human being, you will get laid. Sex is everywhere in this city.So 17 year old high school girls pursuing you is ideal? Girls who are immature, cannot get into bars or clubs, dont have the self awareness real women have, and have sex with guys they barely know...thats all ideal? Whatever you say. Enjoy lolz
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 Which is why youve created numerous threads asking people to critique your physical appearance. A guy whos getting laid all the time wouldnt be as insecure as you are. So 17 year old high school girls pursuing you is ideal? Girls who are immature, cannot get into bars or clubs, dont have the self awareness real women have, and have sex with guys they barely know...thats all ideal? Whatever you say. Enjoy lolz Definitely. Some of the best looking people I know are the most insecure. And sure, call me shallow, I really only go for looks because I don't deal with the emotional baggage that comes with relationships.
Trimmer Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I feel like she was the Auntie of one of the girls and wanted to show them how to pick up men and straight up manipulated me. Stupid whore added mystery to her set of qualities and now I have more questions than answers. WTF? ? ? ? You went out and by all accounts had a great time with her. Her age aside - why the hell is she suddenly a "stupid whore?" What are you suddenly so afraid of that you need to attack her and subjugate her like that? When guys go out and "have game", it's considered an awesome thing, dude, with lots of slaps on the back; it's understood that a "hook up" is just that - a quickie, a casual thing, hopefully everybody gets something good from it, and hopefully nobody goes away with hurt feelings. But when a woman does the same thing, when she chooses to go out and exercise her sexuality in a way that you were certainly agreeable with at the time - I'll note that it sounds like you weren't exactly dragged kicking and screaming against your will into the back seat of that car, were you? -suddenly she is a stupid whore? W. T. F.? Did you decide after the fact that you were really looking for a tender, heartfelt, deep, intimate, emotional exchange of souls that would lead to a blossoming relationship and true commitment, and now you feel dirty and used? Hopefully it does not ring again until I know exactly how I feel about this because I still don't know. Clearly you don't. Do you really have a reason to voice such disrespect? 1
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 WTF? ? ? ? You went out and by all accounts had a great time with her. Her age aside - why the hell is she suddenly a "stupid whore?" What are you suddenly so afraid of that you need to attack her and subjugate her like that? When guys go out and "have game", it's considered an awesome thing, dude, with lots of slaps on the back; it's understood that a "hook up" is just that - a quickie, a casual thing, hopefully everybody gets something good from it, and hopefully nobody goes away with hurt feelings. But when a woman does the same thing, when she chooses to go out and exercise her sexuality in a way that you were certainly agreeable with at the time - I'll note that it sounds like you weren't exactly dragged kicking and screaming against your will into the back seat of that car, were you? -suddenly she is a stupid whore? W. T. F.? Did you decide after the fact that you were really looking for a tender, heartfelt, deep, intimate, emotional exchange of souls that would lead to a blossoming relationship and true commitment, and now you feel dirty and used? Clearly you don't. Do you really have a reason to voice such disrespect? Yes because I had sex with my ideal partner and now I have no idea how I feel about it. I will probably move on and it will just be a happy memory but I am a strong believes in Freud's psychoanalytic theory. She has messed up my tenderly balanced mental scales.
123321 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I agree about the law part....this will make things dicey....but I do agree with the law too. Theres a reason it exists. Guys need to be smarter than this. Eh, "the law" is highly variable and based on the notion that we should enforce moral behavior via legal means. Both those facts tend to make me leery of giving it too much credence, however it's never a great plan to get up one morning and say "I will commit a felony today" even if the law is flaky. As for "getting into clubs", that also varies with locale and I wouldn't judge a woman badly simply because she doesn't go to night clubs in any case. The sort of relationships that are trouble IMO are where there is a real power or trust issue like teachers boinking students or therapists nailing patients.
Trimmer Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Yes because I had sex with my ideal partner and now I have no idea how I feel about it. That may well be your issue, but it is your issue, and it doesn't make her a "stupid whore." I will probably move on and it will just be a happy memory but I am a strong believes in Freud's psychoanalytic theory. She has messed up my tenderly balanced mental scales. The fact that you willingly went out and engaged in something that you enjoyed (immensely, it sounds like) at the time, and now you are revisiting it and having second thoughts about how to retain your tender balance once again makes it your issue, and doesn't make her a "stupid whore." 2
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 That may well be your issue, but it is your issue, and it doesn't make her a "stupid whore." The fact that you willingly went out and engaged in something that you enjoyed (immensely, it sounds like) at the time, and now you are revisiting it and having second thoughts about how to retain your tender balance once again makes it your issue, and doesn't make her a "stupid whore." I got carried away, relax people. Im hitting the sack. Lets see how I feel tomorrow.
CC12 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Hopefully it does not ring again until I know exactly how I feel about this because I still don't know. Just let this sink in -Twenty something looking girl -Has game like a male -Completely comfortable around a stranger -Too young to even be outside past curfew -Tight, not a whore obviously -Settles for one night stand, no strings attached when she is a girl and supposed to be EMOTIONAL -handles alcohol very well yet again shes 17! I feel like she was the Auntie of one of the girls and wanted to show them how to pick up men and straight up manipulated me. Stupid whore added mystery to her set of qualities and now I have more questions than answers. But what if all this is coincidental? I don't know. The good thing is im not really thinking about it too much. Except when I post about it, then I notice these things. I better ignore this thread because I feel like this mysterious peculiar young rich blonde princess is a dead end or a trap Did you actually refer to her as "Stupid whore?" Not even "A stupid whore" or "That stupid whore." No, just, "Stupid Whore" like that's her name. Or am I reading that wrong? It looks so strange how you wrote it. Why are you calling her that? You've just spent the entire thread bragging about having sex with this 17 year old girl who is confident and mature and "IDEAL." You also just made a bullet point list of her positive attributes (I guess), one of which was "not a whore." And why is she stupid? Because she slept with you? Why the nasty name? 1
Trimmer Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I got carried away' date=' relax people. Im hitting the sack. Lets see how I feel tomorrow.[/quote'] I hope you (professing to be a strong believer in Freud's psychoanalytic theory) will ponder whether those offensive utterances were more than just being "carried away" and revealed something deeper about your attitudes and feelings (and fears?) about women who confidently exercise their sexuality. Rest well. 1
CC12 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Sorry, I didn't see the "stupid whore" thing had already been addressed. I should have refreshed before posting.
Trimmer Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Sorry, I didn't see the "stupid whore" thing had already been addressed. I should have refreshed before posting. No, it's fine; I appreciated reading your take on it. I was wondering, am I the only one who's shocked by this?
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 I hope you (professing to be a strong believer in Freud's psychoanalytic theory) will ponder whether those offensive utterances were more than just being "carried away" and revealed something deeper about your attitudes and feelings (and fears?) about women who confidently exercise their sexuality. Rest well. Intimacy issues. I have them. My father came home 2 weeks out of the year for about 7 years (department of defense) and my mother was a very over controlling narcissist who insisted I be someone I could even be, much less want to be.
CC12 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I was wondering, am I the only one who's shocked by this? Yeah, I felt like I was misunderstanding, or maybe it was a typo or something because the thread went on for almost a page without anyone batting an eyelash at that. But now that I've caught up with the thread, I see it wasn't a typo or a misunderstanding. Nope, he called her a stupid whore because "I had sex with my ideal partner and now I have no idea how I feel about it" and because his tender mental scales are all off balance now. I think you got "carried away," OP, because you started this thread specifically to get lots of internet high-fives and when you actually got the attention you were craving, you went overboard and resorted to ugly name-calling in a misguided attempt to get more high fives from your bros.
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 Yeah, I felt like I was misunderstanding, or maybe it was a typo or something because the thread went on for almost a page without anyone batting an eyelash at that. But now that I've caught up with the thread, I see it wasn't a typo or a misunderstanding. Nope, he called her a stupid whore because "I had sex with my ideal partner and now I have no idea how I feel about it" and because his tender mental scales are all off balance now. I think you got "carried away," OP, because you started this thread specifically to get lots of internet high-fives and when you actually got the attention you were craving, you went overboard and resorted to ugly name-calling in a misguided attempt to get more high fives from your bros. No. Stop trying to be an internet psychologist.
123321 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I think you got "carried away," OP, because you started this thread specifically to get lots of internet high-fives ... I don't get it though, I mean he's 22, high school girls and women just going into Uni are gonna be all over anyone that age by default.
CC12 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 No. Stop trying to be an internet psychologist. Then what was with calling her that?
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 Then what was with calling her that? I don't know. But a guess from a random poster is not the answer.
CC12 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I don't know. But a guess from a random poster is not the answer. Actually, my guess was probably the best-case scenario. If you didn't call her a stupid whore because you got caught up in your moment of internet glory, then the real reason is probably worse - that maybe you're just a tremendous ******* who has no respect for seemingly pretty cool (albeit underage) girls. Anyway, good luck with your awesome thread. 1
xxoo Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 It's only wrong if the local AoC is 18+, don't let old women tell you otherwise. We've already established that the AoC is 18+. I fully agree, it's wrong. OP, do you have any sisters? If you had a 17 year old sister, and you cared about her, you might see better how it is wrong. Even if the teen takes the lead, the adult needs to be the adult--legally and otherwise. 2
KungFuJoe Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 This story is such contrived bs. I'm surprised op didn't invite all ten of them to go skinny dipping in his parents pool. 2
Author O'farrell Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 We've already established that the AoC is 18+. I fully agree, it's wrong. OP, do you have any sisters? If you had a 17 year old sister, and you cared about her, you might see better how it is wrong. Even if the teen takes the lead, the adult needs to be the adult--legally and otherwise. No im an only.
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