Mandygarratt Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 Hey guys..my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Right in the beginning he was super jealous of guys that talked to me and how they talked to me though before that, I was single for three years. When we first started dating his ex would call like 3 times a day which I hated. We had two kids (twins). It's their first birthday Monday. His moms visiting. Our relationship has been rocky, little sex, no love, no alone time for a few months. He went away to work a few moths ago and my guy friend and I got really close and I was confused with who I wanted to be with..my baby's father or this guy who I actually talk to and that makes me smile. Let be known it was only through texting..I never hung out with him because I didn't want to make more of a mistake. This guy that I've been texting, well call Doug. He's my bestfriend but I really did lose whatever feelings I felt for him..I just wasn't into it anymore and my boyfriend who we'll call Carter went through my phone and saw texts of Doug flirting and calling me babe. I know I didn't stop Doug but back to Carter's crazy ex and his mother visiting - his mom and his ex talk all the time. I don't get it. It really hurts my feelings and carter and I got in a fight yesterday and I went through his phone and he's texting three girls and one being this crazy ex. She was like "miss me?" he said yes then she asked if he's gonna visit when his mom does. He said no sorry I'm working. Then shes like thats too bad, and hes like yeah i really miss you. I'm pissed off that his moms going to visit him, I'm hurt that he told her he missed her. She's the most crazy bitch - she had a kid, the baby's daddy dumped her and I dot understand why she can't leave my family alone. Its only been a day but I'm so hurt. I know I'm a hypocrite. I just don't know what to do. I started crying and yelling at him last night and told him were over. He started crying and said he was sorry and he didn't mean it he was just trying to make me mad. But I never go through his phone I don't even know why I did last night. This girl cheated on him and had a kid with the guy she cheated on him with!!! And this crazy ex that stalks my Facebook and messages me, doesn't even have the decency to message me and tell me what he said last night. Obviously I can't trust her. Carter won though, because it hurt. And even though I kind of believe him..I just don't know how to get over it. I don't know if well ever be the same but we have kids together and were acting so immaturely. I want to be happy with him and remember our kids first birthday as an amazing day...not the ending of our relaItionship..I need advice
Balzac Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 My advice to you is get yourself into individual counseling. The life of drama that you choose to lead is not positive nurturing for your children. Free or substantially reduced cost counseling is available in every community.
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