BrokenAnna Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 It's been awhile since the last time I posted, but I have some rather good news regarding my progress in moving on. I took the advice to go for therapy and it has helped me tons in getting things into perspective and putting my mind to ease and not obsess so much over my ex. However my therapist feels that limited contact with my ex would be more beneficial in the long run and that things will naturally fade away when a new love enters my life. So I called my ex yesterday and politely asked if we could hang out for a bit since I knew he was spending the weekend in town. He accepted and we arranged to meet at my place for some pizza and wine One would think that after 7 months of almost complete silence that the evening would be awkward and uncomfortable, but it went so well that we talked till 3am in the morning. I still love him with all my heart, but I do realize that we are better off as friends and that in time my heart and thoughts will respect the boundaries of such a friendship. I will no longer be a slave and torment myself in thinking that my life has ended along with this relationship.
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