Scarlett5 Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 I’m just curious….what would you all say about a newly married 27 year old guy who has been in a relationship with his wife since he was 20 and has a love of ‘nice’ things – flash car, great body, good job, trendy clothes, latest gadgets, holidays to great places, values time and nights out with friends….and, he is cheating on said wife? Would you say his wife and long term relationship is part of his desire to keep up appearances and to avoid being ‘alone’? That he has low self esteem? That he needs to grown up and stop taking her and his life for granted? Wife is less attractive than him – has he gained new found confidence over the years and although he doesn’t want to leave his wife, wants the best of both worlds, so to speak? (The guy himself comes across as friendly and confident, not arrogant). Comments and insight appreciated
Author Scarlett5 Posted September 16, 2012 Author Posted September 16, 2012 Because marriage is like arsenic to female slenderness and male happiness. Only if you let it get that way though I suppose? ....and he was cheating before he got married.
without Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 He cheats because he has the emotional maturity of a 7 year old. Cheating is what chumps do when they are man ( or woman) enough to face the issues, solve them or walk away. You mean if they aren't man enough right? Cuz in that case you're right.
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