jamesweston Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 my gf and i have been together for a while now and we do some sexual stuff, i like bjs but she says they make her sick, and id be fine and understand this but im not the first person she has given them too, she did it to a guy in the past after just a couple days of dating and then he dumped her! and another time she didnt even date the guy, he fingered her and then she offered him a bj and they werent even dating!! and he left): when we first started hanging out we talked about how far we went and stuff but she kept certain things from me, i knew her 37 days and had been going out with her for 12 days before she gave me my first bj. idk y but this has always bothered me, she is in love with me like crazy and was never with those guys so i feel like she should want to give them to me when we get the chance, she doesnt want to though, i just feel like its messed up that ive given her everything i have and she cant do that for me, im not saying how i feel is right but i cant help it! i love her dearly!! she says they make her feel sick but i dont understand how she could do it for those bastards when she first got the chance and not me and ik how much she loves me, what should i do?
Pasttense Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 People change. Aren't there things you used to do that you no longer enjoy doing? Or perhaps she associates blowjobs with being dumped.
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