bshipz Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 Hey, I would love some advice and opinions on this matter just because its been bothering me for a while now. I went on a blind date with a girl. We clicked and saw each other about 7 times in a 3 week period. Things were going awesome. In the 4th week we couldn't see each other because we were both busy etc etc. So Come the following week were texting intensely. She's starting school and working at the same time. I asked her to hang out a couple of times and she says she would love to but is too busy... but didn't reciprocate. And then we stopped texting. So that weekend I text her to give me a call. She says why and I say, its been a while since we've done anything and I wanted to figure out whats up? "this was two weeks without seeing each other". She says she's been super busy... I guess just because of the change in tone over the week I thought it was something I did... so I replied K i thought you were pissed of at me or something, and I dont wanna keep bugging you to do things but we started out so strong, I dont want it to die out lol. And she never responded... Its been about 5 days since had any sort of communication The only reason im torn by this is because we saw each other and unloaded our lives on each other in such a short period of time, it felt so rite to be with her... and then it went from that to nothing and I dont know what to do anymore. Also we were hooking up but not having sex Any advice and opinions help thanks
Shosh Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 Sorry this happened to you. I don't know why, but she seems to have lost interest, so I would suggest you try to move on and meet somebody new. Good luck!
veggirl Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 Yeah she is fading on you, nothin you can do unfortunately. Pretty rude to say "why" when you asked if she'd give you a call. And not responding to your last text says it all. Sorry OP
Jamesblame Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 The brightest flames burns the quickest. I'm sorry you're going through this, but it may just be symptomatic of a quick burn. Were either of you rebounding? It happens sometimes, unfortunately. Sorry to hear. I'd just leave her to her silence. If you put forth that you were still interested then there's no point in doing more. And also, 6 or 7 weeks is too early for you or her to lose interest in the other IF it was going to work out.
Nikki Sahagin Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 So sorry to hear this... Having been the 'victim' of this - it's horrible! I agree with what others have said. Sometimes the passionate flames burn out way too soon. It's horrible when it's not mutual.
Author bshipz Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 Thanks for the feedback everyone!, she was in a relationship a couple months before if you consider that a rebound... its over now, I havent talked to her since. Its awkward as hell ill see her at school and not know wether to go and say hi or what? anyways I havent... learn and move on
veggirl Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 Thanks for the feedback everyone!, she was in a relationship a couple months before if you consider that a rebound... its over now, I havent talked to her since. Its awkward as hell ill see her at school and not know wether to go and say hi or what? anyways I havent... learn and move on You could do a polite "nod and smile" but for the most part, ignore her.
bob the brave Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 Could be she wanted sex. Not you're fault though. Women can be hard to read. Sounds like you did the right thing though. Just move on and try again. Next time though, don't invest emotionally so quickly. I know, that just happened to me and it hurts like a mofo. There's more fish in the sea.
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