yongyong Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 I find it disrespectful if a girl shows up with ugly shoes, ugly clothes or no make up (like going to grocery store)
O'farrell Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 When I was very actively working the OLD scene, I met a guy I had been talking with for sometime in downtown San Francisco. Now I have to set the scene.... There is an area called Yerba Buena Park which is surrounded by large hotels, museums, fountains, shops, and nestled amongst all of this is a small, Gothic church. We set the time to meet in the park and when he arrived, I was already there, sitting on the grass. He "helped" me up by grabbing me a bit more than I was ready to be grabbed. We talked about where to go and what to do and I motioned to the church, asking if I had ever been inside. I said no - and that I was not a Christian - but that I really like architecture and we could go in and wander around. He sort of takes me by the elbow and leads me towards the church. When we entered, we could see that it was full and there was a service starting - in Tagalog no less. Well, I'm here to chat and get to know someone, not listen to a Christian service in a language I don't understand but he sort of pushes me into a pew and sits down. So I sit. In between us are his wallet, cell phone, and keys. A huge ring of very loud keys. So he keeps moving his "things" around, making a lot of noise (honestly, this guy needed a man purse!) and situates his "stuff" on the other side so that he could get closer to me. And he puts his arm around me and a hand on my thigh. In a church. I've known this guy about six minutes and he is trying to touch me in a public place... The next thing I know, he is glancing all around the church - scoping it out, as it were - and, before I know it, he picks up all his stuff and walk away saying, "I'll be right back." I don't know where the heck he was going but I immediately scoped out an exit and hightailed it outta there. Walking as fast as I could, I crossed back over to the other side of the park to a restaurant I'm rather fond of, hoping and praying I got out of there fast enough to not have him follow me. Sure enough, within a few minutes I am getting a barrage of texts and phone calls asking where I went. I simply texted back that I didn't feel we had any chemistry and left it at that. Shortest date I ever had and over the following three weeks, he kept trying to call and text me before I had to tell him to go away. Creepy.... lol poor guy probably had went on like two dates his whole life before this The guy probably isn't as creepy as he is awkward.
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