Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Yongyong Why the fxck does he have to disclose his financial portfolio for some chick he met online? Why the fxck does she have to disclose her full body shot for some man she met online? You don't get to argue that men and women look for different things then get outraged when the different things you said men and women look for are used against your argument. Men want hot babes and women want rich men. So if a woman is suppose to disclose a full body shot, why shouldn't he disclose his salary? Sure, wanting a man for money is shallow. But so is wanting a woman for her body. What's wrong with either shallow attraction? Why shouldn't a woman have full knowledge of his financial portfolio? the difference is that I am being honest and you are just making a B.S to make yourself look cool (no wonder why you guys voted for Bill Clinton as a president) Communism unite!
LittlePrince Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Why the fxck does she have to disclose her full body shot for some man she met online?Because that's how real people meet in real life. They don't meet as deceptive headshots.
LittlePrince Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 So if a woman is suppose to disclose a full body shot, why shouldn't he disclose his salary? Why shouldn't a woman have full knowledge of his financial portfolio? I don't know what culture you came out of, but the one I came from saw money matters as private only to be shared with close family and some even found talking about earnings to be vulgar.
yongyong Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 I think you are trying to make it difficult but I am enjoying it somehow. I agree with you. When we want to buy Toys, we must show if we have the ability to pay for it or not. right? I can send you balance sheet which shows the asset, liability and equity I have. I want more than just regular pics though. You better post head shots without a make up. You should send naked shots in a good quality so I can zoom it too. Any damages to your body? how many sexual partners? do you perform kegel regularly? (is your pussy tight enough?) Why the fxck does she have to disclose her full body shot for some man she met online? You don't get to argue that men and women look for different things then get outraged when the different things you said men and women look for are used against your argument. Men want hot babes and women want rich men. So if a woman is suppose to disclose a full body shot, why shouldn't he disclose his salary? Sure, wanting a man for money is shallow. But so is wanting a woman for her body. What's wrong with either shallow attraction? Why shouldn't a woman have full knowledge of his financial portfolio? Communism unite!
thatone Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Why the fxck does he have to disclose his financial portfolio for some chick he met online? Were you guys about to get engaged? did you guys talk about future financial plan together? (As a man, it's like asking a woman how many times her pussy has been drilled, if she had any abortion, if she did anal, if she did any surgery to enhance her looks, if she did dirty sexual act etc) I'm not shooting for rich stockbrokers or CEOs so I don't think I"m being shallow. The not making a lot of money doesn't bother me, but the fact that he isn't giving more details on his finacial portfolio is a little troublesome. My rule of thumb if you will is, as long as he's not making less than me ratio wise and I'm attracted, we're go flight! The last man who didn't give his financial information LITERALLY only worked at a starting level entry salary. let me translate this into men's words. 'I am not shooting for a victoria secret model or Miss (state) so I don't think I'm being shallow. Not looking absolutely gorgeous doesn't bother me. But the fact that she doesn't expose her naked body in a bright light and wearing make up, not showing washed face is a troublesome. I just expect her to have flat abs with a nice curve from hip to back, full C boobs, clean face with no wrinkles. The last woman who didn't reveal her full naked body LITERALLY had nasty cellulite on her ass, molds on her face, extra fats on her belly and push up bras.' The thing is you are exactly an Average American Woman- Meaning if a guy has lower social status, you won't be interested. Do I have a problem with it? NO I am sure you still want to find a charming guy in that category. (you won't go out with a guy flipping burger. You will screen for their job and then go out to see if you guys are compatible) It's the f-ing same for guys. We will go after the ones we like and see if we are compatible. I keep saying this. you and I have the same desire. we want to be with someone who meets our standard. the difference is that I am being honest and you are just making a B.S to make yourself look cool (no wonder why you guys voted for Bill Clinton as a president) funny thing is that's not the craziest thing she wrote in that post. "he initiated contact, i'm leery of that, men who initiate contact online can be overly aggressive" what the holy hell? if men waited on women to contact them on dating sites and that were our only way of meeting the opposite sex, we'd be extinct in one generation. 1
Author SJC2008 Posted September 21, 2012 Author Posted September 21, 2012 I guess I don't think being "polite" is about being nice to people only at face value. What bothers me is that he is talking about her a certain way here which he would never do to her face. Do you understand my point now? I am not advocating he be rude. I am advocating he be mindful of how he talks about other people whether they are around to hear it or not. People believe they are "good" and "polite" and "kind" as long as they say nasty things and the person they are saying nasty things about isn't around to hear it. Would he ever say to her that her boobs where nice and she had a pretty face but the rest of her turned him off? Probably not. Why say it here? What is the point? So the board knows that her body wasn't up to par with what he liked? That's all his personal ego. Nothing more. If it wasn't, he would have just said, "Well we met and I wasn't attracted to her." Case closed. Instead, he went into a detailed report about which features where pleasing to him and which weren't. That isn't about being polite or useful in anyway. So is this how you talk IRL?? She didn't like the way your wrinkled 30 year old penis felt in her smooth 20 year old vagina.
LittlePrince Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Vaginas aren't smooth no matter the age.
surlyboy Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 (edited) I've been chatting with a very nice woman online. She initiated contact so I'm weary about that (IME women who initiate online are quick to gig). Anyway I find her attractive but she has herself listed as a few extra pounds and only has head shots. First of all, I'm not shooting for bikini models so I don't think I"m being shallow. The few extra pounds listing doesn't bother me, the only face pics do. My rule of thumb if you will is, as long as she's not bigger than me ratio wise and I'm attracted, we're go flight! The last woman who had all face pics LITERALLY had a bigger stomach than me, not proportionately. Would it be rude of me to ask for a full body pic? How would I do it? I don't think I could bring myself to it IMO. You are going to find out sooner or later, so I don't understand why women wont post full body shots. If they are that self conscious of their weight, they should do something about that so they feel more confident with themselves. I would ask for a full body shot. Obesity in this country is becoming an epidemic. It is not okay to be obese. It is a serious health risk and in my opinion, shows a lack of self worth/self esteem and poor lifestyle habits. If that is really true, I would want to know that. Not everyone is attracted to fat people. I'm sorry if this offends anyone, but a woman's intellect and personality does not make me erect. If I am not attracted to the woman, I don't care how nice she is. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, not something you have to endure. In the end, we all want to be happy and there is nothing wrong with a guy, or a woman who wants someone who takes care of themselves and who is attractive. If you want to live a certain lifestyle and have money to travel, why do you have to date someone who makes no money cant keep up with you? I lost 50 pounds in the past two years and want nothing to do with a woman who does not share my ambition to be healthy and eat healthy. Ask for the picture. Edited September 22, 2012 by surlyboy 1
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