kaoticdizaster2012 Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 I am gonna try to make this as short as possible. Me & my bf, xbf, whatever you wanna call him right now have been togther for almost 6 years. I gotta give just a lil history... we actually met for the first time in 1992 and dated for a few months. Then fast forward 15 years later (2007) he calls me out of the blue. At this point I had been single for pretty much 7 years and raising 2 daughters. We went to dinner, he pursued me even said I Love You first and all. He has been good to me. Bought me a house and a car. Paid my bills. All so I could be a stay at home mom. Kicker is he has never lived with me and barely ever stayed the night. Now he lives with his parents and his EX lives next door. Wait for it .... He has NEVER introduced me to his parents. He says because he doesn't want to put that stress in my life because his EX and his Mom are very close. Along with the rest of his family. I kept holding out hope that he would change his mind but now I am thinkin there is more to the EX than I have been told. She knows where I live and has never tried to approach me, Even walked right by eachother at the store before and still nothing.? What has finally been the final straw for me is the past 2 years he has been getting more and more distant from me. Always making up excuses and me saying OK! I have tried to break up with him many times in the past 6 months but he says he wants to be with me and promised it would get better. Well this week was his Vacation and low and behold I haven't seen him and when he called earlier he pulled the bitch move and hung up on me. In all the time we have been together I have never went off on him but I started to on the phone and I get hung up on. WTF? I have been nothing but good to him and beyond patient. Oh one last thing... he had me go buy him a prepaid phone to get in contact with him and he don't even use the damn thing to talk to me... he ignores every call and every text.?... that really ticked me off. How many others would put up with this?
Balzac Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 You're funny. No sustainable employment but only recently disgruntled enough to shout. Find out what assets are in your name. Get a plan.
Author kaoticdizaster2012 Posted September 14, 2012 Author Posted September 14, 2012 Really? Funny? This was a guy that I Love whole heartedly and feel I have been lied to pretty much the whole relationship... or at least the last 2 years. And a Job that won't be a problem. I mean do you seriously think I should have stayed for what he can do for me financially? Thats just plain ignorant. I am not a gold digger. I do appreciate everything he has done for me and my girls. The fact is emotionally he is killing me and I can't stay with someone who does NOT wanna be with me. Trust me I will be fine I am a strong woman but its still heartbreaking that it didn't work. But I can't dwell on it. I wrote it to get others views on if they would put up with what I did for that long not to be judged by someone like you!
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