runner Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 I know plenty of guys just like that myself, I always wanted to know their secret. I approach women and always fail, and I can't recall ever a time where a woman showed any level of attraction towards me. But some guys don't even have to approach and women are just drawn to them, its like magic or something. it's not really magic. some guys just have good reputations as being a cool dude amongst their peers- and word gets around. or they carry themselves in a way that consistently says: i'm freindly, open, fun, sociable, and i won't bite. 1
Necris Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 it's not really magic. some guys just have good reputations as being a cool dude amongst their peers- and word gets around. or they carry themselves in a way that consistently says: i'm freindly, open, fun, sociable, and i won't bite. still sounds like magic since I can't understand it. I know guys who can go anywhere and women will still be drawn to them, and I have no idea what they are doing as they don't appear to be doing anything out of the ordinary, maybe they have a woman attracting aura and I have girl repellent. Hopefully there is some way for me to modify the "aura" pheromones, presence, or whatever you want to call it I'm putting out.
runner Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 still sounds like magic since I can't understand it. I know guys who can go anywhere and women will still be drawn to them, and I have no idea what they are doing as they don't appear to be doing anything out of the ordinary, maybe they have a woman PEOPLE attracting aura and I have girl PEOPLE repellent. Hopefully there is some way for me to modify the "aura" pheromones, presence, or whatever you want to call it I'm putting out. aka, demeanour. you either have one that conveys, 'i don't really want to talk to you', or, 'come on over, the water is nice'. what i think is lost on you is that, what i'm talking about transcends 'getting girls'. it's about being a genuinely likable person to anyone- men, women, children, small animals, etc. on that note, notice how our LS losers on here (not naming names ), tend to talk shyt about girls, or people in general, all the time ? "she's too fat, too ugly, too feminist, too...etc, bitter bla bla bla"; it really is no wonder that they don't date. 1
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