rejected_lost Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 hi guys and girls, I'm left really confused here... there's this girl in my college(sarah, name changed) who I like... and we're into the second and last yr of our course and in these 2 years I've always had this feeling that she likes me a lot... she has nothing but unremitting praise for me and she has always told me how good I am in terms of looks and even about how she respects my talents as a good writer, presenter etc. there are some of her close friends who at times even tease her with me and at times it becomes blatantly obvious that she likes me... but... what bothers me is lately she seems to have become circumspect when it comes to chatting/texting me... when I took her number like a week back, she notoriously asked me to call her... when just made me feel she has reaffirmed her liking for me... but since then I've been texting her and indirectly giving her indications about my interest in her... but her response has always been in a cautious tone... we have never had that opportunity to speak at length in person but her interest in me becomes obvious at times... why then is she not reciprocating in the manner one would expect a girl who is into someone to do? She has a female friend who I'm training for her football match... I asked her to join us too because the real reason why I took up the task of training her is cause I want to spend time with her(this girl I like)... we had a fairly good time today while I was training her friend and after being back in my room just a while back... I texted her something like this... "Im glad you came... only wish cud have spent more time with you... gn" to which she plainly replied... "Gn :)"... now that has got me wondering... whether I'm going on the wrong track or is she testing my patience... The thing is... we have our exams coming up and both of us will get busy with that in a weeks time... and once we're done with that we have our placement season which would commence soon after that... so I'm certain both of us will get busy with that and I do not want to spend a lot of my time working on wooing her or thinking too much about this then... so what my intention is to give her indications about my interest and am hoping she responds in kind and that isn't asking for too much given how much she has shown interest in me in these 1 and a half yrs... Can anyone tell me what's holding her back? Could it be that she's confused about how she feels now that I've been showing interest? Or could it just be that she wants to see how far I can go... or is it that she was just playing with me all along? She has a few admirers in our class and I won't be surprised to find out there are other guys who're hitting on her too... but why is it that while she speaks like she's attracted when I speak to her but doesn't express anything like that while replying to my text... I had given her a call a couple of days back regarding training her friend and I asked her if I was disturbing her since she was working on an assignment to which she said "You can disturb me Nick!(my name)"... and she was giggling all the time... One of her friends(the one im training) asked me if I would join them for a movie tomorrow(sarah, this friend and a male friend)... I agreed and when I met her today while I was training her friend the first thing she told me that it's a privilege that I'm joining them for a movie tomorrow... I'm very very confused now... what is she trying to do? Am I trying too hard or overexpressing? Kindly let me know what you guys make of this.. should I back off for a while? I'm going with them tomorrow and how should I behave with her? Please I need your suggestions...
Author rejected_lost Posted September 13, 2012 Author Posted September 13, 2012 god... the more I think the more I think I've ****ed up by sending her that text..."I'm glad you came... wish cud have spent more time with u... gn"... damn... feeling embarrassed by that now... I just hope it wouldn't be awkward tomorrow...
KungFuJoe Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 Holy crap that was a nightmare to read. Actually, I didn't read it. Learn proper sentence structure. "..." is NOT how you end a sentence.
Author rejected_lost Posted September 13, 2012 Author Posted September 13, 2012 Holy crap that was a nightmare to read. Actually, I didn't read it. Learn proper sentence structure. "..." is NOT how you end a sentence. not the right time for English lessons my friend...
LoverOfDance Posted September 14, 2012 Posted September 14, 2012 I think you're thinking too much about this. If you like her, ask her out. You've been wondering if she likes you 4 almost 2 years now - that's a long time to spend just analyzing and guessing. I noticed a lot of guys do that. They spend so much time just beating around the bush. Ask her out and see how it goes.
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