kiki_7654 Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 I met a girl through my ex boyfriend and became really close with her. She dated my ex's best friend. Eventually they broke up too and we had that in common, we were both heartbroken by two jerks that were friends. I had a lot of fun with her, but she was constantly going back and forth with her ex, and i was too with my own for a little but eventually i needed to let go and move on. Having her continuously go back and forth to her ex annoyed me but i was always there for this girl. I took her everywhere with me, introduced her to my other friends, paid for her for things, listened to her when she was upset. I was just a really good friend. Recently, she went back with her ex to work on things and she completely cut me out of her life for him, which really hurt me. I sent her a text telling her how upset i was with her, but she ignored it and i haven't heard from her since. I've been seeing on her twitter that things aren't working out with her ex, but she never reached out to me. I miss her, but i hate how she betrayed me and just ditched me, that's not a friend. I don't know if i should send her a message telling her how i feel or just leave it alone.
TaraMaiden Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 ......just leave it alone. This. (10 characters).
freestyle Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 OP--you already expressed your feelings once, and got ignored. Do you really want to reconnect with someone who'll disappear, whenever a man comes into her life? I've had a handful of female friends do that, too, so I understand how it hurts, when you're under the impression that you have a close bond with a friend. I've learned to save my energy & effort for the all-season friends, not the ones who use me as an emotional band-aid when they're in between romances. You're better off letting your silence speak for you, and investing your friendship energy elsewhere.
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