Coyoteloco Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 Its been 2 weeks of straight no contact, like no comunication, and its killing me, i miss her so much, its been almost 2 months since the break up, and this is the longest no contact period so far. Its like she is not gona come back, and being together its just a memory its so sad. Even though my life its getting better and im moving foward, back on track with studys and stuff, but i still miss all the good times we had together, but i guess in the future ill find love again and ill apreciate it so much more after all this. I dont know if im in denial, depression or aceptance or any other stage. But i really miss her, and i feel like she already forget about me, after 6 years u think thats possible? or that she feels just like me?
Crila16 Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 She hasn't forgotten about you...and I'm sure she still loves you, she just may not be IN love with you. There's nothing you can do about it. The NC is for your benefit, not hers. It's supposed to help you get used to not having her in your life anymore. It takes time to break the habit, but it will happen. I'm sorry you're hurting right now...but once you get through this pain and move on, you're going to meet someone who'll make you happier than this girl ever did. I know it doesn't seem possible, but take it from someone who has been through it. You're not going to even think about this girl within the next year or 2.
Author Coyoteloco Posted September 13, 2012 Author Posted September 13, 2012 yes i know its for my benefit cause each time nc gets broken i feel like **** after it. I hope ur right and i find someone else in the future but i feel scared, because i havent been single for 6 years, and the game changed and right now there are few girls in my life and im somewhat shy with people. But well life has always been good with me, and i have always been good with life so i dont worry too much, and i apreciate my friends more now because they are the ones that make me happy now and pretty much they are the ones getting me through this and putting me back in track
Crila16 Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 Hey...all you need is one girl...right? So choose wisely if you plan on spending the rest of your life with her. I wouldn't worry about there being a great deal or only a few girls in your life right now. It will happen when it's supposed to happen. Just let life take over and try not to overthink it. I was in a 6 year relationship one time, and it took a while to get over. You'll get there.
hardlybreathing Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 No contact sucks, but trust me - it really, really works! Stay strong!!! 1
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