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I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow :o I was sitting here at work and it just kind of hit me full force. Last time I saw him was July 23rd and this will be the 3rd trip in our 7 month relationship. I'm shaking right now with excitement, I just can't believe how far we've come. I'm also excited because we decided to take our intimacy to the next level. Yup, we hadn't slept together thus far. So it's a very huge step for us.

 

I feel like I'm going to have a mini heart attack.

 

Any ideas for a gift I can bring him (I suck and wait till last minute for everything).

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make sure it's not unexpected fatherhood.....

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...thank you for the comment. I'd like to think if we've waited this long to have sex we won't be foolish enough to not use protection.

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Balzac Established Member

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Think is not the same as knowing. Are you basically saying that in 7 mos you have no contraceptive? Condom is your first choice?

justwhoiam Established Member

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Boy, they're so cynical and mean! You ask about apples and they start talking about bananas...

 

Well, I'm glad for you :)

Something for him? Hmm... Maybe you can arrange something for the two of you. Or you can make something for him with your hands (no pun intended).

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Enjoy!! ;)

 

 

 

I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow :o I was sitting here at work and it just kind of hit me full force. Last time I saw him was July 23rd and this will be the 3rd trip in our 7 month relationship. I'm shaking right now with excitement, I just can't believe how far we've come. I'm also excited because we decided to take our intimacy to the next level. Yup, we hadn't slept together thus far. So it's a very huge step for us.

 

I feel like I'm going to have a mini heart attack.

 

Any ideas for a gift I can bring him (I suck and wait till last minute for everything).

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You : )))

Just bring him happy excited loving sweetly scented and under clothes bit innocently bit provocatively dressed YOU :p I assure you its all he wants anyway ....

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...thank you for the comment. I'd like to think if we've waited this long to have sex we won't be foolish enough to not use protection.

 

No joke-- when you haven't seen the other person in a long time it can lead to really irresponsible sex. My SO and I had sex for the first time after a two month separation even though we had discussed waiting at least three more months, and we had less-safe sex than normal on another visit after a prolonged separation. You get super excited and then you just can't take the extra thirty seconds to get the condom. You need it NOW. So nobody here means to suggest you're foolish... just that we've all been there and we know what happens when we get excited! ;) Make the preparations you need to and have that condom *on your person* when you meet up with him!

 

Back to your original question... ZOMG YAY! I haven't seen mine since about the same time and I have five more weeks to wait... so jealous!!! But when I go I'm planning to make a recipe I found on Pinterest. I made cookies I knew he liked last time, and this time I'm making a portable variation on his favorite dessert. You could consider something sweet like that!

 

But you really don't have to take anything! YOU are what he's looking forward to, and you're what he'll be focused on! You don't need a gift! This is one situation where "your presence is present enough" is actually completely true.

 

(That being said, if you're not staying in a hotel it's not a *terrible* idea to take something like a portable dessert/wine as a guest-gift, especially if you're doing something like staying with his family.)

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[...] because we decided to take our intimacy to the next level. [...]

Happy for you, pardon me though cause for me it's kinda weird, deciding on such things beforehand :confused: Of course you should be on contraceptives/have condom nearby in case all the time but sex itself should just happen spontaneously, when you both can no longer wait and long for each other so much, you can't take it anymore... Lol seriously, I can't imagine talking to my SO before , let's say, our second meeting and saying stuff like 'ok, so it's time to have sex now, right?', that would just totally ruin the surprise factor and spontaneity for me!! [Not to mention that I would get a heart attack before the meeting first, if I knew what's going to follow...] For me, I prefer waiting for things until they happen naturally. Well, in my case it's mainly because if I knew beforehand, I'd be so awfully nervous and awkward that our first time would simply suck and would be far from my expectations/dreams, I just know that; whereas if I got super horny and got into it with him, I wouldn't care about anything anymore, just become lost in the moment..

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I can't imagine talking to my SO before , let's say, our second meeting and saying stuff like 'ok, so it's time to have sex now, right?'
I might be wrong, but I don't think it happened like that... I guess it's when arousal grows and grows and he might ask you: do you think you'd feel like... And you know what you feel like... And then over the months before meeting him, you know. You know both of you feel that way.

 

Just like you, I like things happening naturally. Spontaneous is the key word for me.

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Why don't you just bring him a box of rubbers so he can have them for the other women that he is sleeping with. Like he is faithful for you or waiting for you. Dream on. He is doing other girls.

Have you applied for jerk consultant of the year? Are you talking by experience?
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what is he gonna do all those months when he is horny, keep using his hands, or watching porn???? Nooooooooooo!!!!!!!!
Who can afford escorts? 30% of all men? But among them, who's willing to pay them? Let's cut it down to 15%. So I'm not wasting my time here talking about that 15% of men. He may well be among that number, but we can't know for sure. And I'm not here to fantasize what he's doing in his spare time, for as much as you'd like that.

 

I'm a grown lady and I might be older than you. Who knows. So stop the assumptions.

 

Let's keep the discussion on topic.

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What a perfect example of a -hole its true man get more "nervous" and itching for it then us in this type of situation but then man get that way even when they last had sex few days ago but they are MAN.

 

And any man can do anything he "wants to" and decides to even stay faithful in long distance relationship or cheat and nothing and no one can prevent it BUT

if they have strong will truly love someone yes its hard for them but they can do it and will do it.

 

A -holes like you are not welcome here this is community of friends and people who care about each other and are here to help each other in this situation and A- hole like you is like fly in a soup ...

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Aquamelon Member

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whoa I missed a bit there while I was gone haha silly troll. I trust my guy completely and 100% believe he is being faithful to me.

 

But just to let you guys know I had a great time, missing him so much already. 43 days till I see him in November.

 

Oh and I know someone mentioned about it being weird talking about having sex before hand. It's not like we had a discussion on the details of this planned sexy time or something lol. We decided should we feel in the moment it would be okay to officially take that step. I felt strongly about waiting for a bit.

bluegreen Established Member

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Yeah little creep that's just what he wanted to ruin everyone's day

glad to hear your visit was fun and you had great time : )))

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