carhill Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I would agree which is why I gave up on it. Other things to do in life.
insertnamehere Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 Ding ding ding! I'm glad to see I'm not as full of **** as I always feel while dispensing advice. I have no idea what these are. I love it when a guy stares right at me, and if I like him I hold his gaze for however long he looks at me. If I don't like him, I am not going to hold his gaze at all, or at least not for more than a second. You just have a more direct sexual style than most women. In my experience, a large majority of women conduct themselves in a range that goes not much more than from skittish to playful.
AD1980 Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 I think the main thing to look for is not a particular set of signs, but a change of behavior when around you. I know I am a naturally flirty person. I'm not trying to tease, but I cannot help but to engage in flirty banter, especially if it's intelligent banter. Call me a tease, whatever. Can't help it. The key is to pay attention to how she is around other guys and then compare it to how she is around you. For instance, I will verbally flirt with anyone. But I will almost never touch a man I'm not interested in. I'll also be a little more reserved (at first) around someone I genuinely like. So it's not about the behavior in and of itself, but the change in behavior that's important. AS a guy who cant attract women i hate[not literally]women like you i get so excited thinking finally a women is into me for once and find out shes just a flirt/tease it sucks and makes me even more hesitant to go for it
GirlontheLam Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 AS a guy who cant attract women i hate[not literally]women like you i get so excited thinking finally a women is into me for once and find out shes just a flirt/tease it sucks and makes me even more hesitant to go for it As a former super flirt, I decided to tone it down. People kept accusing me of being a tease. Now, everyone gets witty banter. The ones I'm interested in get all of the physical contact (if I don't know you). Once we've established where we stand (like, let's you and I will become platonic friends) then you'll probably transition to to the short upper arm touches. I'll refrain from touching your knee and holding your arm unless I am flirting with you and hoping to reverse that friend zone decision.
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