MW93i Posted September 12, 2012 Posted September 12, 2012 (edited) Long story short - She stopped loving me and lead me on for weeks but finally had the courage to break it off around 10 days ago. I understood her position to end it as the relationship was well... dying out in all honesty and I head off to uni in a matter of 10 days now and you could tell things werent going to work out. The only problem I had was that she was sort of acting like she didnt have a care in the world about me. So I spoke to my ex about getting my things back off her, shes still putting it off even after I demanded getting them before I go off to university the answer I got was just 'next week'. That isnt all though. The conversation first started on Facebook. I basically said to her I want my things back on Wednesday and gave her a list of what she had of mine. She got back to me the next day and said 'No need to be a c u next tuesday about it'. I asked her why she was being like this and she started calling be a 'Bell - end' she then told me to text her as she was deleting Facebook, I delayed her decision and she went on to say things like 'You seem well stuck up' and 'You changed within days' she then went on to say... 'posting loads of random statuses and pictures, trying to bother me? youre acting stupid.' Even though I haven't been putting 'random' statuses they have just been about Andy Murray/Tennis and a good day with my family at a theme park. The only one that would have remotely annoyed her was how I said 'Roll on the 17th' which is University Freshers and for the pictures it was of a night I spent in with friends but we walked for a takeaway. There was around 10 photos of me drunk. None of which should have really annoyed her. She then went on to delete her Facebook and texted me. Things got a little heated here. She knew I deleted her Number so she had a little go at me telling me how she needs to contact me about a Court date as I'm a first witness for her. I told her I'd be there and I'd always be there for her situation, just trying to be a good person about it. She then went on to say she was scared in case I didn't turn up out of spite. Which is something I wouldn't do. We then go on to talk about the relationship which I didn't want what so ever. She tells me how she wasn't to blame and how the relationship wasn't a relationship. I tell her I don't want to talk like this over text and invite to talk face to face. She tells be how she doesn't want too as it will make things worse (So she does feel something, I guess). She then goes on and rejects me and tells me she doesn't want to make the mistake of getting back with me. I tell her I dont want her back and it wasnt a case of my to pleade and begg for her back it was just to talk nothing more nothing less. She said she can't. I then straight up ask her a question that was running on my mind. I ask 'Are you remotely upset at all' She Replys 'No I'm fine, In the back of my head I feel a little hurt but i'm okay..' It did hurt hearing that I told her it did and she then went on to say. 'I didn't care about the relationship but I care about you, thats why I left it so long as I didn't want to hurt you' I tell her if she cared so much she would have ended it instead of leading me on she reply 'Kick me while I'm down, thanks' The conversation then stops and we agree next week as a time for me to get my things. I just really can't get my head around things at all. Can someone else give me a view on this besides me and my friends? My friends all think she actually does care a whole lot more than she is putting out but I need an outsiders view badly. Help please. Edited September 12, 2012 by MW93i
Author MW93i Posted September 12, 2012 Author Posted September 12, 2012 please will someone just look at this
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