Response to the slow fade

[jordjones]

We dated for about three weeks and had really good chemistry and became intimate. Our last evening out was a week and a half ago. I got really drunk and things didn't end well. Last week, I asked her out twice, and she essentially declined both times. The first time was because she had "to babysit...but maybe we can do something this weekend." When I asked her to dinner on Saturday, she replied, "Minors in your country don't get to eat dinner . I'm sorry but I've made new plans now." She was referring to the fact that she lost her ID this past week.

 

Since last Friday, I haven't heard anything from her, and I haven't initiated anything. My gut is that this is a classic fade out. While most alphas would probably advise me to just say f*** her, I like this particular chick and feel that I need some closure, at the very least. My plan is to call her tomorrow and ask her out one last time. If she seems hesitant or has some lame excuse, I'll just tell her that I sense she isn't into me anymore, and end things there. I don't plan on getting emotional or having a heated conversation at all, I just want some peace of mind. Any advice or thoughts on this approach would be appreciated. Thanks

[jordjones]

bounce

 

Hey guys...I really would like some advice here. Thank you!

[oaks]

I got really drunk and things didn't end well.

 

Oops. One to learn for the future.

 

Last week, I asked her out twice, and she essentially declined both times.

 

Sounds like she doesn't want to date you.

 

Women who are interested make it easy to arrange that next date, and they make it obvious that they're interested. (I gather this generally applies to men, too, but I don't try to date them so I can't say for sure.)

 

This woman isn't interested.

 

(On the other hand, you haven't been in touch with her for 4 days... maybe she thinks you're not very interested either.)

 

Move on and find someone who wants to date you.