niisoares Posted September 12, 2012 Posted September 12, 2012 So Im gonna try to keep it as short as possible... i met this guy online 2 years ago he told me everything about him but from week one he started to say i should wait for him and that he really liked me... well sue me i was only 18 had never even been interested in a guy before and he got me hooked. We used to talk all the time through skype for over 20h watch each other sleep and so on he was so sweet but i started to realize that he would lie and 'probably' cheat unfortunately i was already too deep in love with him. He left twice for girls but after 1month he would come back saying i was the one and they had nothing on me. As he lives in texas and me in portugal he told me he wanted to go get me cause he really loved me and wanted to marry me so i could have a wonderful life with him there. On January i droped out of school, payed 2000 dollars to be able to go see him and stay for 3 months, ran away from home and thats when the problems started. He was NOTHING like the guy i met he was mean, he didnt care about my feelings and even heard he intended to leave me once i had to go back to my country. Now imagine this coming from a guy who looked in my eyes and told me i was amazing and wanted me to be the mom of his children one week before i heard about it... 2 months i got back i found out he was on craiglist looking for girls i was crushed i threw it at his face and he dumped me and said he couldnt be with me cause i didnt trust him and i was crazy... say what?? i found out he was talking to tons of girls on facebook he would randomly find and told them the same things he used to tell me but thats not the worst... Twice. Once in july and again in august he emailed me saying he wanted to go back to me after being with other girls and that he could never replace me but hours later he asked me to forget about it and that he forgot i had "issues"! and that i had been with other guys when i hadnt! Now he found a girl on facebook who lives 2h away has never heard her voice and says shes his new girlfriend... how is this possible? he was desperate to find a girl is he going maniac? his relationships never lasted more than a few weeks he always comes back to me... is it possible that he never loved me? cause god i did so much for him and i love him so much... he used to get very jealous and presented me to his family they said i was the second girl they ever met in 6 years... hes 26 im 20... will he be back? this isnt bothering me much this time maybe cause i have a feeling he will be back and i hope so cause i ruined my future because of him and i love him alot... what do you think?
Author niisoares Posted September 12, 2012 Author Posted September 12, 2012 btw he "found" this girl 2 weeks ago this is crazy and in july he did the same thing with another girl who lived far away... what makes me sad hes that he was my first everything he knows it and he told me once "why would i ever leave you if youve always been here for me when i needed you the most?" i dont get it :/
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