lovebug1234 Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 I was seeing this guy that I really loved and we've been on and off for a really long time. He really doesn't have his life together even though I love him. It's so hard to stick to the break up because he's so charming and sweet. He always is able to find his way back into my heart. He's changed a lot for the better but now, I realized I'm looking for LONG TERM. OUr values are so different. I'm trying to save up money (I wish I could spend freely) but he loves to spend on luxury items like clothing and excessive things. which is totally fine, except' he's always broke so he would be like oh babe, you gonna get us dinner? I resent him for this. I love him but logically I know I have to leave him. Why is it so hard? We've broken up again, usually he would chase after me after a few days. How do I stick to it.
TaraMaiden Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 By remembering this. He sponges money off you because he's a bad financial manager. That's an alarm bell, red-flag, right there...he will always put himself before diapers and responsibilities.... He's sweet and charming - lovely attributes, my dog has the same.... He doesn't have his life together... so he's an aimless drifter... latching onto any available convenient piece of flotation to keep himself going. An oportunist who knows a good thing, that keeps giving out.... oh, and has sex with him on a regular basis too.... and who left to her own devices for a few days, will come running once he turns on the sweet charm again.... Honey - stop being a sucker..
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