Sign on low interest?

[Thatguy80]

Hey all.

 

Ok, here's the situation. I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half. We've kept it pretty casual only been out 6-7 times, and rarely talk in between dates. We're in our late 20's and the interesting thing is I'm the first guy she's ever even kissed, so she's very inexperienced.

 

She was really shy at first, but has opened up a lot. Out on dates, she'll flirt quite a bit, but will never initiate any physical touching. She seems fine with it and goes along with it when I initiate. The first few dates she gave me the cheek when I went to kiss her but that changed. The last time I saw her, we had a good time, with a long kiss at the end. I did get a weird vibe for some reason then, even though no signs were really present.

 

So I texted her about 4 days later and asked "What kinds of fun things do you have planned this week?" She replied about 30 minutes later "Not sure yet, let me get back to you. I don't finalize my life until tomorrow." I've always asked her out this way, so she knows that's what I'm getting at.

 

Maybe I'm looking at it out of context, because I did not ask her out for a specific day. But I've always seen "Let me check my schedule" as being a bad thing. Any thoughts?

 

Thanks!

[joseph17]

This is why I hate texting sometimes because you can throw the simplest words out of context. It sounds to me that she is playing her part and instead of jumping up right away to say yes she is playing it cool. Women play mind games PERIOD! not saying that men don't but woman have more control of the situation than a man does. If you are the first guy she has ever kissed and you're in your late 20's I would have to take a guess here and say you aint getting none till you marry her.lol I may be wrong but if she waited this long it is for a reason right? Just play it cool and see what happens. DO NOT act on your feelings because they are all based on a text with NO feeling behind her words. Let us know what happened

[Thatguy80]

Lol, appreciate the response man. Yeah, her and myself are both Christians so the sex part I'm good with. I lived that way when I was younger and want something real this time around. She said she was a "man hater" when she was younger and really did not desire to have a relationship.