dont know what to think with a weak heart

[lorimarie]

ive been hanging out with this guy for 3 months now, he is 36 years old and i am 24 and he has a daughter (which botheres me!) but the age thing doesnt too much, i usually go for older guys anyway, and he doesnt act older at all...i really like him, and enjoy hanging out wth him..we hang out alot.and i usually stay at his place for a couple days at a time..ive hinted that i want to be his girlfriend several times..and all he said was " i think of you as a girlfriend" and i said ok but im not? and he said yeah...so wat the hell does that mean??? i dont want to just get strung along and have it go no where and get hurt. im starting to have feelings for him and im scared!

hes also bringing me to pa with him to visit his family this weekend.............im so confused! lol help please

[ja123]

Why does his having a daughter bother you?

[lorimarie]

idk, i never "dated" or hung out with anyone that had kids..and its awkward a little because shes older..shes 14..so its just weird to see him with her..and hes always like so touchy feely with her..and i just see her as a girl, not his daughter..ya know? she looks so grown up with boobs and a nice body and make up lol its creepy the way he is with her, always rubbing her back, calling her babe, and baby..and then 2 seconds later, he'd act that way towards me..it creeps me out!