Davigg Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 i've known this girl for alittle over a year now and have dated her/been her best friend for the past 10 months or so. i decided to end things with her last week because she acted impulsively by coming over to my house to hang out after we had gotten into argument. although we had made plans to hang out, i was annoyed by the fact that she failed to give us time to talk once more after our fight before just showing up. although she attempted contacting me, i ignored her hoping that she would stop. after not responding to any of her attempts for 3 days, i finally texted her that i wanted to end things and that i wished her the best. since then, she has not given up trying to contact me and keeps calling/texting me. how can i get her to leave me alone? i dont want to talk to her, why doesn't she understand that?
KatZee Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 And people wonder why women are crazy. You guys make us that way. Are you for real with this? This is how you treat a "best friend" ?? She came over your house and you dump her because it was too "impulsive" for you? Did it ever cross your mind that perhaps she showed up to have a conversation to YOUR FACE? Like normal people do? And now you just think by falling off the earth and ignoring her that she's going to "get a hint???" Grow the F up. And grow some balls while you're at it too. 6
Balzac Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 I think the bigger question here is how many of your boundaries did she violate, disrespect in the lead up to this? An argument was had, you declared the relationship ended, she's not respecting your right to decide. She will eventually stop contacting you. Why concern yourself about jerk v not a jerk? It's over.
Jono85 Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 And people wonder why women are crazy. You guys make us that way. Are you for real with this? This is how you treat a "best friend" ?? She came over your house and you dump her because it was too "impulsive" for you? Did it ever cross your mind that perhaps she showed up to have a conversation to YOUR FACE? Like normal people do? And now you just think by falling off the earth and ignoring her that she's going to "get a hint???" Grow the F up. And grow some balls while you're at it too. yeah based off the simple details given, without knowing more (for example, the argument was b/c she cheated on u or hurt u in some way that was wrong), u come off as extremely immature and quite a douchebag. like katzee said, is that really a way to treat ur best friend? she's trying to reach out to u and talk with u. why are u ignoring her? that's quite hurtful of u.
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