is it too late??

[Cee_Mariah]

Help!

 

I am bit confused and not sure how far to push this. I am 22 yrs old and have been sleeping with this guy on and off for about 3 yrs. We have both always had a disagreement about the relationship between us. We never talked about other partners or people in our lives. We had no strings attached and for the most part things were going along good.

 

Due to my studies I was never in the same state for more than 4/5 months on end, so pretty much could not really hold or have a serious relationship without it being a long distance relationship. Been there done that, not for me. Anyways.....Since I have been back home and am home for good things have been getting a little more passionate between us.

 

My partner claims to have never had a real relationship with some, he is 23. He is the type of guy who gets very picky when choosing females and has his own high expectations. Ok, understandable. Better than no expactations I say, but at times he sounds like a female. He makes me feel as though I am not good enough to fill in a more serious spot in his life.

 

Am I expecting too much since we really have only had a physical relationship and have not tried to much it to much until now? I know I'm ready to give it a go with him but not sure if he is with me or will take me seriously. I hate being that typical girl that says, "hey we need to talk".

 

I have already told him I am looking for something a little more serious and if he can not provide that for me than its a wrap between us. He said I wasn't wasting my time with him. But how can I get him to take me a bit more serious and do certain little things without nagging and demanding too much?

[ja123]

"He makes me feel as though I am not good enough to fill in a more serious spot in his life."

 

^^ This is why you should leave him.

 

No one should make you feel less. That's awful. You deserve better.

 

If there wasn't any sex involved, you'd have a clearer picture of things and walk away.