Nolovejones Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 So my ex gf broke up with me because I questioned her about something fishy she wrote on a website. She said she was done with me and the situation because I went looking for something to get upset about. Let's keep in mind that she never expressed how she was feeling towards me while she was upset but she would post her feelings on this social network. We had been together for almost a year and a half. We are in a long distance relationship in which she came to visit me once. When she exploded on me for simply questioning her post on the site I said some really mean things out of anger (who doesn't?) we didn't speak for 3weeks, she randomly called me to discuss business and then it errupted the feelings I had so I did what you shouldn't I begged and pleaded to get her back. That was a huge no no, anyway I found out she was dating someone else the second week after our breakup who happens to live in another state. It pissed me off because the whole relationship she gave me a hard time for not being there with her and doing the things that couples do. To mak things worst she has made plenty of trips down to where the new person is to spend time with them. But me the person she was "in love" with only got one visit.. Basically what I am saying is what does it mean when your ex rebounds with someone and places herself in the same exact situations she supposedly hated? And why on earth would she dedicate my old songs to her to the rebound it's only been two months?!! ..the kicker is this is all stuff that I found out..she doesn't know that I know all of these things..this is so hard for me..
flitzanu Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 she changed her mind, simple as that. first step - quit internet stalking her.
Author Nolovejones Posted September 10, 2012 Author Posted September 10, 2012 I did..I'm trying to move on but i feel like I'm stuck..what makes this person better than me? Like what the hell we had a very good relationship until she started being shady..smh
flitzanu Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 I did..I'm trying to move on but i feel like I'm stuck..what makes this person better than me? Like what the hell we had a very good relationship until she started being shady..smh nothing. it doesn't mean anyone is better or worse than you, just means that she chose something different.
TopCat22 Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 The fact that she got so angry about an innocent question tells me that she already had this guy on the go or at least in mind. I think a similar thing happened with my ex. You should pity her for the poor decision she has made. She has lost out here. After what she did she didn't deserve your love and she doesn't deserve your friendship. Repeat that to yourself and you'll start seeing things in a different light...
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