motive2002 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 I should have ignored it I should have ignored it I should have ignored it I should have ignored it I should have ignored it Let this be a lesson to others. Ex contacted me after almost a year of NC. I took the bait. I guess I couldn't help it. I wanted to be polite. Her intentions seemed weird. She wanted some old pics of us... said she was feeling "sentimental". "Like a spike in the nuts".. as I recall from the NoFoolin NC thread... also to paraphrase that same thread "You don't want to know what they're up to. You really can't handle it." I thought I was ready. I thought I had completely moved on. What fresh hell is this? Don't make the same mistake. If there's no absolutely life or death reason to reply, just don't.
Frank13 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 SO what happened? What did she say? Did she tell you things you didn't want to hear? Did she just ask for pictures, you sent them, and now you are feeling bad?
BooBoo1982 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 SO what happened? What did she say? Did she tell you things you didn't want to hear? Did she just ask for pictures, you sent them, and now you are feeling bad? Yes more information please.
TaraMaiden Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Guys, don't make him sprinkle ground glass in his eyes.,...he's hurting enough already... Suffice to say contact was re-established and he regrets it.... That's like a Catholic priest saying "Go on, give me all the sordid details and juicy bits - leave nothing out!" All I want is the damn wafer, fer chrissakes!
BooBoo1982 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Guys, don't make him sprinkle ground glass in his eyes.,...he's hurting enough already... Suffice to say contact was re-established and he regrets it.... That's like a Catholic priest saying "Go on, give me all the sordid details and juicy bits - leave nothing out!" All I want is the damn wafer, fer chrissakes! Sorry Tara
TaraMaiden Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 For penance you shall..... I just think sometimes churning matters over doesn't aid venting, but can keep us stuck in the pain. OP may well come back and clarify, but there again, if it's too painful, maybe some things are better left unsaid.....
Frank13 Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 Guys, don't make him sprinkle ground glass in his eyes.,...he's hurting enough already.. Well we all know you aren't supposed to break NC. We have heard that drilled into our heads over and over. Most people post their specifics of their situation to further substantiate why you should stay NC. To make a post just telling us to stay NC doesn't do anyone any good.
TaraMaiden Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 Well, if you need more detail from some poor unfortunate heartbroken person, here you go....
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