jubsy Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Hey all! Saw this online and I thought it would be a great place to start especially to get an unbiased opinion My ex and I have been split for a long time but never really had complete 'no contact'. Up until earlier this year I was still receiving calls from him. Since I reactivated my networking site, I have had passwords changed, friends deleted and added and he has had complete access to my personal thoughts (phising program) This has been confirmed. We split because of someone else. Basically, whilst on a break, I became involved with someone, who unbeknowst to me was a friend of his. The guy knew who I was but I did not know who he was. I told my ex part of the situation on an answering service message ages ago..but I didn't think he believed me. After information that was on my system, there have been comments made by my ex regarding someone taking the pi**..., then someone taking what isn't their, blaming someone else for their actions and not wanting to name as people will only say 'Itold you so' (but being hurt by the lies) ...then 7 days later, the guy has posted all the various ways in which he does not believe he is a pi**taker, followed by if something is yours you should stamp it as yours ..with pictures and quotes referring to women... This has all been made public..not limited to only friends..they used to be friends on this networking site, the comments replicate the situation down to a tee... and I guess other than venting to the guy himself..do you see any other reason why after so long, my ex decides to speak his mind? Any imput would be appreciated. Thanks for reading! Jubsy;)
january2011 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 I'd make sure your computer is clean, cut out both guys from your life and either delete your profile or block both guys from accessing it. You don't need the drama of people rehashing your personal life in a public space. Perhaps there's also a lesson to be learnt about boundaries and maintaining contact with exes.
Author jubsy Posted September 10, 2012 Author Posted September 10, 2012 to be honest, I don't mind the lengths he has gone to if it means he knows the truth. But if it is continuing (which it is) I don't see what reason, other than the obvious why he would do it. I imagine..trying to apologise for accusing someone wrongly over an 18month period after acquiring info by invasive methods...then contemplating telling that person you believe them, surely they will question what makes you believe me now? I know my accounts have been repeatedly hacked. It has been isolated to a domestic user in my area, it would be a bit coincidental that I then get the call wouldn't it?
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