lovehurts5 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Longer story of the BU can be found under emotional roller coaster. shorter story is my ex and I dated 4 years, broke up April 29th, hooked up May 26th, last I spoke to him was May 29th because he kissed someone in front of me and was calling her "his girl" 3 weeks after our break up to people that I'm friends with. He called me June 29th at 1230am but I didn't answer. My friend (his best friends girlfriend) told me he had texted her bf pages worth of texts that same night saying how he screwed up and only wanted to be BU for 1 month to "teach me a lesson" (What lesson that was, idk because I never did anything to hurt him, ever). So now currently... He texted me last night and I responded. Our friends baby has her 2 year bday party on Saturday. He asked me if I was going. I said yes. He said he probably wasnt because of work and then was asking me what I had been up to. He asked me if I thought things would be weird if we were around each other and I said not unless he made it weird (Which he seems to be pretty good at doing). Then he said things to me like "I thought about you today because I was over our mutual friends house and I caught myself wanting to makeout with you but then I caught myself... I'm not trying to mess with either of our heads..." (REALLY!? then why are you telling me that?? Is what I was thinking) Then he said things to me like "I haven't had to think about you for a while but with this bday coming up I was like hmmm. Come make out with me for a second then we don't have to talk ever again" I was like I would miss making out with me too, it's ok. Then he said "I don't miss making out with you I just thought about it for a second and was dumb enough to text you" Then I texted him back some witty remark and he was like "Wow, you got cool again, good for you." And then we had a normal convo for a split second and the convo was over. FINALLY, the whole point of this, if you have read through this long story, my brain is all jumbled today because I haven't spoken to him in 3 months. I've thought about him everyday and have wanted so badly to contact him but I haven't. I'm happy he caved in and texted me but he said some jerky things last night that weren't necessary. I feel like even though he said "I don't want to mess with heads" that was exactly his intention. What are your thoughts? Where do I go from here?
flitzanu Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 thoughts? you stop giving in and talking to him because it's accomplishing nothing. 1
youngnlove89 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Jeez, I would have thought you two were 15 years old. He needs to grow up. Making out? Really? He spelled sex wrong. He is playing with your head. Ignore him! It's nonsense. And I'm suprised you responded to an idiot like that. I wanted to make out with you but then I didn't but I figured I'd tell you anyways to tell you that I didn't want to make out with you?!?!?!?! You can do better than that! You deserve more than that! 1
Author lovehurts5 Posted September 10, 2012 Author Posted September 10, 2012 Yeah i know the conversation is naive I'm not surprised you thought we were younger. He was contradicting everything he was saying hut I was trying to stay strong and I didn't give in once. Aside from responding back.
Author lovehurts5 Posted September 13, 2012 Author Posted September 13, 2012 Ughhh now ever since he contacted me Sunday I find myself wondering if hell contact me again..... I need to stop
sweetheart5381 Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 Ughhh now ever since he contacted me Sunday I find myself wondering if hell contact me again..... I need to stop Close the door my dear. Guys like him are a dime a dozen.
sendme Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 I say its ridiculous... it is exactly what you entitled your post, a breadcrumb... and I get it, the only thing my ex and I were consistently good at was sex.... but seriously, for him to say he thought about it and then realized it would be dumb... aka I was horny for half a second... I understand why it would hurt, you had all these feelings put on a shelf, and now they're in your face... but ignore him, you are no guys make out buddy.... If he really cared about you he would have thought about how amazing you are and how his life is lacking because your not in it, not about how hot it is when you make out... making out, or having sex is almost always hot... yes sometimes its better than others, but still it's not enough of a foundation to build a relationship on
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