What now?

[Bad_Feeling]

After 100 days plus of no contact, I sent a quick text to my ex- gf a month ago. There has been no response at all. My birthday came and went and nothing. What can I expect in the future if anything.

Thanks.

[Balzac]

More of same. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.

[not-a-drive-by]

I am dreading my birthday, even though it is 2 months away. I suspect that I won't be getting a birthday text of any kind, and it'll be a very miserable week. My birthday and our would-be 3 year anniversary are just 3 days apart. It's going to be torture. We were meant to spend it together like the past two years (we were even planning to take part of the week off)...even if he does send a text, it might feel good to know that he still remembers, but what can I say? He ain't spending the day with me like I wanted .

 

Sorry for hijacking your thread. But, Balzac is right. Don't expect any further contact from her. Probably her way of saying she doesn't want to be friends right now, doesn't want to show that she still cares or has moved on completely .

[Chi townD]

After 100 days plus of no contact, I sent a quick text to my ex- gf a month ago. There has been no response at all. My birthday came and went and nothing. What can I expect in the future if anything.

Thanks.

 

Just thank your lucky stars that she's making NC very easy for you. Dude, here's the thing. And I'm sorry if this stings a little. But, she's done with you. She's moving on while you're stuck trying to figure out if you should move on.

 

Life is too short. So, it's time to enjoy life and make positive changes to yourself. Read some threads where people that have had successful NC experiences. Look, it's one thing to go NC and it's another to go NC and not make any positive changes in your life. NC with positive changes gives you back your self esteem and makes you more happy given time.

 

Time to heal, dude.