kamilla Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Hey ya'll! Background: We dated in high school. We were each other's first. After a while I realized it wasn't going to work at that time in our lives and I broke up with him (He didn't cheat or anything like that, just our lives were heading in different directions). He tried to win me back for a few years and I never budged. I cut off all contact after that. Last year we reconnected and caught up about how our lives have been since. He is doing good and so am I. He's dating someone now and has been for the past year. When we started talking, I asked him if he had a gf and if she would be okay with me talking to him. His reply was that he did but that since we are just friends that she really didn't need to know but if I wanted her to know he would tell her. He always talking about the past and says things like I was the one that got away, and if it wasn't for this girl that we could have tried again. Right after that I felt it was wrong to continue talking ( I kept thinking about his gf and how it would hurt her to hear him say these things) and I cut off contact. The things he was saying to me, just didn't feel right since he was in a relationship. He would still message me, and call me and I wouldn't reply back. So to get to my point, he wished me for my birthday a few months ago. His is approaching and I was wondering if I should wish him just out of common courtesy (via text)? Or just ignore it?I don't want to hurt him (overall I do think he is good guy, just has a hard time letting go) since he did wish me but I don't want to him think this is a sign to reach out to me and start calling/messaging me again. What do ya'll suggest?
oracle Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 You made the right move. Don't reach back.. his mind will just keep the fairy tale going. Hes hasn't and won't move on until he meets someone he likes just a little bit more than you. Nothing good will come of continued interaction with him.
Author kamilla Posted September 10, 2012 Author Posted September 10, 2012 You made the right move. Don't reach back.. his mind will just keep the fairy tale going. Hes hasn't and won't move on until he meets someone he likes just a little bit more than you. Nothing good will come of continued interaction with him. Thanks! That is what my gut was telling me too.
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