jordjones Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Our first date was 4 weeks ago. We had a great connection, went on several other dates, and slept together within a couple of weeks. Then last Saturday, we spent the whole day together, went out, and met up with some of her friends. I was super drunk, they were dancing together and I had nothing to do, so I ended up going to the bar next door. Before night's end, she said goodbye and left coldly. I don't even really remember all that happened, but I feel like I blew it that night...just super drunk. I called her on Monday and we talked for a while. She seemed OK with everything, was laughing at all my jokes, and agreed to go out with me later in the week. Since then, she has blown me off. I asked her out for Thursday, and she said she had to babysit. She essentially declined my invitation for dinner this Saturday, saying "she couldn't get into bars (she lost her ID) and she made new plans." It's been a week since I saw her, and I feel it's over. I really like her. I haven't contacted her since Friday and feel I should back off for a while. Is that my only move. BTW, she's super hot - 9+ if not a 10. That might affect the advice given. Thanks.
Silly_Girl Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Sorry if I'm naive... Can't you ask her what you're asking here? Tell her you'd really like to see her?
Author jordjones Posted September 10, 2012 Author Posted September 10, 2012 I think she knows I want to see her. I asked her out twice this past week. These were the first and only two times that I got declined.
The Way I Am Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 You may have did or said something really unattractive while drunk -- or just the fact that you were that drunk may have turned her off. You might consider telling her that you've noticed she seems to be giving you the cold shoulder and asking her if you did or said anything stupid when you were out drinking.
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