newmoon Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 any other women dating a romeo/casanova type of guy? i've been with my bf about 17 months, and he's a nice guy, but his ego is HUGE, especially when it comes to him being able to 'get' any other woman, and he is always doing things for other women (making them soup/coffee) when they are sick, upset, etc. he's a caring guy, but he has a savior complex and wants to be a knight for all womankind. and he thinks all women are attracted to him - when in reality they are just being social/nice. how to handle this type of guy? although i know we're very happy, it still bothers me when he makes comments about being able to get other women or how nice other women are, etc. it's very frustrating male behavior! and i won't confront him, because he's the type of guy that will (unfortunately) do it more if he knows i dislike it
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 He's more of a wannabe than anything. Not sure what you see in a guy that runs around trying to get validation and attention from other women by sticking his nose up their @ss....let me ask, what is pathetic behavior to you? because If this isn't it, I don't know what is. But I'm sure you're quite young and he's still got the itch to impress women and try to swoon them...unfortunately he's doing while in a relationship. I don't think I can get into how ridiculously insecure you must be in order to stand by and watch a guy like this. If he was any good at it however, he'd been playing these women and you'd be eating his dust with the rest of them...It only seems that his lack of success is what keeps him in this relationship from a mans point of view, and being with a woman who will actually allow that level of disrespect. Don't take his "caring" as genuine, can assure you that he does this because he wants something back, he pretends it's care so that he can continue to do it without looking like a douchebag or a bad guy. You should really set this guy straight and tell him the truth so he can slap himself out his fantasy world or even leave him for it. So he can start actually thinking about his actions and how inappropriate they are. It should be a responsibility of yours to communicate with him and express how you feel about this...what do you think? he's just going to wake up one day and change? ha! for what? It's not typical male behavior...I've never done anything like that, and I've known other men who are not, you got one of them @sskissers that sticks around women only to try to get closer, because he's extremely transparent and easy to see...If he had any game at all we wouldn't even be having this conversation. He'll dislike it if you tell him the truth, and probably attack you...but then again you've proven to be a pushover. Get some self-respect woman. I hope you're under 21, If you're really young I apologize for being so hard on you, but these are things you still need to learn and realize or guys will do this to you...many guys push the limits and see what they can get away with, drawing the line where you make them.
ja123 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 I wonder how he'd react if you took on more of a boss role; ie., order him around, sit on the couch and make him serve you, have him do all your errands, and everything must be perfect under your inspection before your give him an ounce of approval. Tell me, does he like to play with your feet?
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