Loss Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 (edited) Hi guys, This was our 4th date and it went really bad. I won't go into details but I'll just say that I really screwed it up and although there were some good moments it didn't go well at all. Our first 3 dates were good-very good in my opinion. When it was almost time to go our separate ways I asked her if she would be free this coming week to which she answered that she might have plans but will let me know which I took as a bad sign. This morning I texted her and apologized for all the mistakes I made last night and promised to learn from them. She responded by telling me not to worry about it, and that we just had a miscommunication last night. I know she liked me up until last night but I think she might have lost interest in me, or at least is unsure about me now. Could you guys give me some advice what to do? Should I stop talking to her for now and wait if she contacts me since she said she'd let me know if she has any plans this week? We originally planned to go to to a show next weekend (on the 22nd) so if she doesn't contact me maybe I could ask her next week if she'd still like to see the show? Edited September 9, 2012 by Loss
SJC2008 Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 We're gonna need some details to know if what you did is something you can put the fire out on or not, Your identity is hidden, that's what this forum is for, to vent about those embarrassing/bad decisions (check my hist lol). IMO telling her saying you made mistakes and you'll learn from them didn't look to good on your part. It shows worry and you gave away your hand. If she's a benefit of the doubt person you might get away with it.
ja123 Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Yeah, we need some details ... For the 4 dates, did you always initiate, or did she, too? I'd say back off for now and let things cool. The ball is in her court.
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