HLP234 Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 I can't stand being in between my family and arguing with them over my gf. We've been dating almost 2 years about now. They never met her and were turned off by her and her behavior last year. Parents got a divorce and it turns out that I was the one to have to always be there for my mother and siblings. So they moved closer and at that time my gf gave them a bad impression, she was somewhat disrespectful knowing I needed to help my family out. To the point that one time I left my place where it was new to my family and they didn't know the area, so I could go hang out with the gf. She would fight with me all the time that I need to stand up to my family for her. Its not fair that they don't want to meet her, or care for her. I understand how she feels and she is expecting me to do something. But being as my family thinks she is no good because she has no schooling, job or anything they dont want to see me going down a bad path. My gf got hurt a while back and my family always brings that up that if I choose to be with her for long I will be the one to need to do everything. They say things like I am lost, no longer care for my family just do what I please without thinking. I don't agree with how my gf had acted towards them in the beginning but that was a while ago and nothing has changed. We constantly fight everytime my family needs me for something. Her family likes me but I never fought with her infront of them, or said rude things to her parents like she has to mine at one point. It really sucks being inbetween to the point that I don't want to deal with anything at all anymore.
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