LonelyIsland Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 This guy and I parted ways a little more than a month ago, not because we had issues but because we both are now living in different countries. I talk to him often, and I miss him all the time (and sometimes it makes me want to cry). I think he misses me too. However, I know we can't be together, because: 1. I don't want have a long distant relationship (and I don't think he does either) 2. We both are at difference stages of our lives and he lives in another country. Currently I am traveling, and I'm in Italy. One of the most romantic countries in the world, and I have all these Italian guys trying to take me out, but all I can think of is that I feel guilty for having fun with these guys. I feel like I'm cheating on my ex. We weren't together for a very long time, but we spent a lot of them together before I started my travels. We talk often, and he always wants to hear about my adventures. And I'm very happy every chance I get to talk to him. Any advice on how I could move on without feeling the guilt? I wish we could be other, but things just don't work out that way for us.
oracle Posted September 10, 2012 Posted September 10, 2012 Dive in. After your 3rd or 4th italian guy, you won't feel guilty anymore. Its all a matter of getting used to. You can get used to anything in life. So start now.
Author LonelyIsland Posted September 11, 2012 Author Posted September 11, 2012 I'm trying to...slowly. So I talked to him yesterday and I confessed about how I feel about seeing other guys, and he told me he feels the same (that he's cheating on me) and doesn't want to see anyone right now. He admitted that he doesn't like the idea of me dating other people, but sooner or later he knows I'm going to, and said he " will still love me. As a friend." But if he had the opportunity to date me again, he wouldn't refuse it. This is the first time he ever used the word "love" with me. Should I just treat this as a friendly love or is it that he loves me? He admitted that he misses me yesterday also, and I'm usually the one that says it, but he said it multiple times yesterday.
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