LatsyrcSC Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 I've always found my boss sexually attractive, but unfortunately he's married. But that's not what I'm writing about. My question is this. Any time I talk to him he always stares at my lips.....or he'll just take a quick glance at them. Why does he do this????? Maybe he thinks they're sexy? heheheh I don't know......... what's your thoughts?
dyermaker Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 Point to your eyes and say, "Hey. I'm up here." Dunno, I've always wished I was a woman so I could do that.
johan Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 I once had a boss that would stare at my forehead when we spoke. It was distracting like when you can tell the newsman is reading from a teleprompter that's a little too high, or when you can see their eyes moving back and forth. She did it because she couldn't manage eye contact. She thought the forehead was close enough that people wouldn't notice she wasn't looking them in the eye. I have to admit, sometimes making eye contact while talking with people can be weird.
reasontosigh Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 Maybe he's lip reading? Or just teaching himself to?? I sure wouldn't want to let on if I found my hearing were shot, or headed that way. Not to take away from your apparently sexy lips or anything.....
Author LatsyrcSC Posted July 22, 2004 Author Posted July 22, 2004 Originally posted by reasontosigh Not to take away from your apparently sexy lips or anything..... LOL
stormy Posted July 23, 2004 Posted July 23, 2004 i dont know why people do that but its really annoying.
krbshappy71 Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 Sorry if its annoying, but I read lips too. Hard of hearing since 5 yrs old, I have found that reading lips helps me catch the words, I can hear the person but can't catch exactly what they are saying. I'm not interested in a hearing aide because I can hear everything else in life just fine, just have trouble catching words sometimes. I'd rather read lips than keep saying "huh?" "excuse me?" "sorry I didn't catch that..." etc. Be thankful he's talking to your lips instead of your boobs. HAA!!
stormy Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 settle down i was assuming this sexy gentleman wasnt hard of hearing
Stinger Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 UFCKevin's right. He wants to kiss you. It's called the "triangular gaze." Look into the girl's eyes... then back at her lips, then back into her eyes, and maybe her neck. He wants to kiss you.
havNfun Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 all good guesses but 4HavNfun is here now to tell you the real, non-politically correct reason: he stares their to keep from staring at your tits and eyes. both gestures would unveil immediately his true thoughts of you, or desire towards you.
Stinger Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 ??? I make eye contact with my mother when I talk to her. Does that mean I want her? Eye contact doesn't have to be seductive, man. It CAN BE, but I'm pretty sure that in business seminars they teach you to MAKE EYE CONTACT with your employees so that they trust you more. He's staring at her LIPS. Her LIPS. He finds her attractive. No ifs ands or buts.
Adunaphel Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 Some people just find it unconfortable to look others in the eyes, out of shyness or for other reasons. He might find you and your lips attractive, he might be fantasizing about kissing you, or he might have guessed you like him, be embarassed or even annoyed by it and not look in your eyes for that reason. You can't really know.
havNfun Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 ??? I make eye contact with my mother when I talk to her Does that mean I want her?. of course not!! but it is my believe that eye contact is a pretty direct way to communicate. So much so that it often reveals feelings that one might have but not even with to communicate. and don't forget - he wasn't looking at her eyes!
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