CopingGal Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 Our significant others left us because they were better than us, we weren't good enough for them, and we never will be. "Time heals all wounds." Horse ****. It does not. Nothing heals anything. There is no hope, there is no meaning, and there is no point in anything. The end. EEK, what kind of post is this? My ex didn't leave me for someone better than me. I left him...officially. He was spending time with a woman who was stupid, selfish, and reckless, just like him. My ex has sociopathic traits. A person who is a better fit for him is NOT better than me. She's a moronic slut. He's moronic whore. It's that simple. She is better for him, but not a better person than I am. My ex is a loser. Get some pride and self-esteem...SHEESH! 1
CopingGal Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 I can't agree that time heals. It hasn't for me, 15 months on. In that time I have turned more and more bitter - never mind the anger 'phase', I am constantly angry about what happened. 15 months is not a long time. I may take 24 months to at least start to feel better. Don't rush it.
Zammo25 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Ok we may not be losers but we have lost something we did not want to lose. As such it is NOT our choice and we have no say in the matter so we have no control over it and as such that makes us weak and at a severe disadvantage. 1
yessy21 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 You let that anger out!!!!! As a matter of fact i want you to put on your brightest clothes and run down your block yelling " fu*** yea' from the top of your lungs.
marqueemoon4 Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 (edited) I don't think this thread is funny.. it's sad. It makes me sad that there are alot wonderful people out there who feel the OP feels. I wish I had answers, but I don't. What I do know is true is this: 1. calling yourself a loser is not going to help anything. someone breaking up with you doesn't make you a loser, how you handle it is the determining factor. I know, I've been acting like a wuss for over 2yrs. 2. you have to find the positive things about yourself and really focus on those. and I'm sure you have a lot, its just tough to see right now. your exes opinion of you sure as hell does NOT define you... YOU DO, through your actions and decisions. 3. maybe there is no real "point" to life, but like anything else you can try to make the best of it or you can resign yourself to being miserable. its really your choice. 4. you can't control what other people do/think/say but you can control yourself. i can promise you no one wants to be around someone who feels the way you do. i know its hard to act "happy" when you're miserable and insecure inside, but having a terrible attitude and bringing others down into your misery will only end up with you being alone. 5. the best revenge really, really is living well and being at peace with yourself and others. people will hurt you/let you down/lie to you etc, but thats what makes true friends and family something to be cherished. I could go on and on.. and I know alot of it seems cliche. I sit here typing this and I'm as alone as I've ever been in my life. I'm scared, worried if I've dug myself a hole I can never get out of.. but some part of me know that life is cyclical, and if I'm a good person, do the right things, treat people with the respect they deserve, that the world will turn for me. its not easy to always respect yourself AND others.. its very easy to let anger/insecurity get the best of you. but if you keep at it, you'll find it becomes second nature. I've been tagged a "negative" person my whole life and honestly, I'm tired of it. I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be happy, to make others around me feel loved and understood. honestly making a difference in others lives really is what makes me the happiest. please, don't give up... I feel the exact same way you guys do sometimes like "this is all bs, all of it" and all it does is drag me down further into the abyss. make a conscious choice. no more! Edited September 17, 2012 by marqueemoon4
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