JoeCa Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 No relationship just ends. There's a history that leads it to the cliff. I'm in my late 50s, I love my wife, the kids are gone and so on. She has not been a happy camper for awhile. Has a need to start over. Her feeling of failure stems from all sorts of baggage she carries around. Perceived failure with the kids, never worked and other stuff. Her belief that I've never listened. Heck, who's mature in their 20s? That's when we got married. It was a deep love. Deep. And the feelings are still there. So where am I headed with this rant? Well, it appears this is the end of the relationship. A loss that will be hard to bare. I'll be back with updates. But by having a forum to vent has [might have] some medicinal benefits. At least I hope so. Good night [for now].
riverratt Posted September 11, 2012 Posted September 11, 2012 Rant away..we won't tell.. ..It does help. Even if it something you don't really, in your heart, mean.
g450 Posted September 12, 2012 Posted September 12, 2012 Vent away. Mine threw me away after 23 years and starting over at 48 is a b***! Not all bad though. There are benefits. Lots of people here are in their middle ages and later. Seems a lot of women change for various reasons and want to start over in the golden years with something new. Seems to be an epidemic now days. Its what I call the "sluts in the city" fatasy. Anyway, welcome to the club. What size jacket do you wear? 1
worldgonewrong Posted September 12, 2012 Posted September 12, 2012 Although I'm not in your echelon, I've got 20 years under my belt with my stbx. So go right ahead and say what's on your mind. I can relate, even if I don't have the elite extra-16.
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