FlareBot Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 I'm starting a new relationship but I'm scared to like him more than I already do cause I'm scared of heartbreak. I always end up being used, and I'm afraid to believe what he tells me. Help?
bdash Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 Eventually you are going to have to take the leap. There is no other way to do it. If you want to be close to someone you will need to trust them. That said if a guy is promising you the world or telling you stuff you have a good reason to suspect is false keep looking. He probably isn't worth dating. If he is doing this he is either really nervous (and really likes you) and doesn't feel like he can keep you any other way, or he is using you.
lover4721 Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 Eh, I know what you mean. Look at my threads that I have open. Haha I am somewhat facing the same issue. I say, let him show an interest in you. Let him tell you how beautiful you are, how much he is into you, etc. I would have LOVED my friend to do this to me... Then, I would have trusted her much more. But she kept me waiting - wanting me to trust her words of "I like you." lol So all in all, just have him show you how important you are to him, THEN you can reflect. If you don't feel trust, kindly tell him you don't feel too important to him, and you'd like to have a deeper connection with him.
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