dannykeyz831 Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 Ok, there is this girl that I've known for about 3 years and I've always had a thing for her but she was either unavailable or I was in a relationship. Well just recently the both of us broke up with our ex's (weird coincidence) and so we started talking more and eventually got to the point where we would start texing each other goodmorning, goodnight, and what not..even calling eachother babe and love. This went on for like a good 2 weeks but just last week, the messages started becoming far and few in between. ( I usually wait for her to text me). Well last night I asked her why she's been MIA all of a sudden and tells me because she's been stressin out lately. That's understandable but then she play's this cruel joke on me. She tells me that shes pregnant from her ex bf. I was like what????????? I was pretty much speechless and it went on for another 10 minutes or so. Then out of nowhere she goes, "HAHAHAHAHHA, GOT YOU GOOD!!!" Why the hell would you joke around like that? It really upset and got me thinking about things. Did she do this to see if I really cared about her and wanted to see what my reaction would be? Or did she do it as a hint that she's back talking to her ex? I'm just so confused right now. I'm seeing her in a couple of hours but I don't really wanna bring it up. Am I over reacting to the situation?
Eddie Edirol Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 I think she started seeing someone else, maybe her ex, was afraid to tell you about it, and used this to try to lighten the blow. Did she say she was seeing someone after the joke? Usually when the messages fade out, theres someone else in the picture. Thats what stressin out means in liar terms. Next time, you have to make a move much sooner, or you'll get friend zoned in most cases.
Author dannykeyz831 Posted September 8, 2012 Author Posted September 8, 2012 I think she started seeing someone else, maybe her ex, was afraid to tell you about it, and used this to try to lighten the blow. Did she say she was seeing someone after the joke? Usually when the messages fade out, theres someone else in the picture. Thats what stressin out means in liar terms. Next time, you have to make a move much sooner, or you'll get friend zoned in most cases. She never mentioned anything about anyone else. Her ex is seeing some other girl so maybe its making her miss him even more. She's only been broken up with him for 3 weeks.
Quiet Storm Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 Maybe she is pregnant, and when she heard your reaction, she decided to take it back. Maybe she doesn't know what to do, and wanted support and to talk about it. When she heard your shock, she decided against it. Otherwise, I have no clue why a woman would joke about that.
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