megan43 Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 Me and my boyfriend who is also my one year old son father,recently broken up. I found out that he was cheating on me the whole time we was togeather. We dated for about 3 years. I was so good to him. I never cheated, lied or mistreated him. I loved him with all my heart. He has cheated on me so many times and I stayed trying to make it work because I wanted to have a family with him. I'm 22 and he was almost 30. I made sure his Dinner was made, cleaned up and took care of the baby while working and going to school. He always cried to me bout how bad all his other girlfriens did him wroung.so I tryed my best to be the best he had. I'm a very pretty girl and I know I can get another man. I just want him to be the man I need. The more he started getting caught cheating the more he wanted out of the relationship. Then he came out and told me he wants space. He wanted me to get my own apartment and he get his. But he don't want me to have sex with other pol he wanted to be the one I had sex with and for me to get a house phone and cell. And he wants to come to my place sometimes and eat dinner with me and my son. Them a month b4 we moved out he changed he said he don't ever care if we get back togeather and he started acting mean. Then he told me he loves me but not in love with me.
Author megan43 Posted September 8, 2012 Author Posted September 8, 2012 He moved rite out the house with mesims and n with another female n he. Her does three domes together !! N he has other girls stay day note at their house with his girlfriend to have sex! What should I do I'm so hurt he.left me for her?
hinatticus Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 I'm sorry for the sh*t you're going through. He sounds very controlling. Basically you enabled his behavior by taking him back every time he was caught cheating. Your boundaries need to be set. He needs to be a man and take responsibility for his actions. He sounds like he's going to be a bad father for your child. I know how badly you want your family to stay together(I'm trying to get mine back together currently) I'd give him plenty of space until he can figure out how badly he's been treating you. And on top of that, don't take him back until he's worked on himself for atleast 6 months to a year, if not more. Do you have any family or friends you can get help from? Stay strong!! 1
Author megan43 Posted September 8, 2012 Author Posted September 8, 2012 Yes..have talked to my family when I got my apartment two weeks after I moved in he called me 36 times claim n he wants to see his son and I never kept the baby from him he see him every time he ask me . I text him when he left my house that bite and said I know u didn't just come to my house to see ya son u wanted to see me to and he text back a smily face. Its now been 4 Mons since we broke it off. I was letting him come to mu house to see his some because he is in the streets doing. Bad things and I didn't want my son around that stuff. A week ago he called me over 60 time's and text over 100 saying I'm a bad mom for not letting his son go with him and I'm a bitch **** me extra..I didn't respound back so he showed up at mu house again I didn't Ans the door. His feeling be hot n cold one min. He text n saying sorry he realized he was wroung for calling me names when we was togeather and he knows I'm a good person . Den when he ask to take the baby with him and I say no that's when he gets mad n start blow n my phone up. He also stated that I didn't do ne thing wroung when I first moved den he went back to telling me it was my fault we broke up. I know it wasnt because I did everything I could. He was use to having lots.of money from the streets n he couldn't do it ne more because he was b n watched so that's when I Steped n and gave him money paid his bills ect once he got back n to the streets that's when he started treating me bad and left to be with a girl that does what he do get street money.so he left me and his son. Wh
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