Sox Man Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 so this woman who is recently divorced I've been "seeing" is having a cookout tomorrow night. We have a history. We've been going out for about 5 months but she's not ready for a commitment. we've been intimate, but everything seems to be on her terms. I cant help but feel I'm being jerked around. Should i even show up. BTW. I failed to mention, we work together. She's hot. but...
january2011 Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 It sounds very messy. I'd advise you not to go and to restrict all exchanges to a professional context. No more sociaising outside of work.
redraven Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 so this woman who is recently divorced I've been "seeing" is having a cookout tomorrow night. We have a history. We've been going out for about 5 months but she's not ready for a commitment. we've been intimate, but everything seems to be on her terms. I cant help but feel I'm being jerked around. Should i even show up. BTW. I failed to mention, we work together. She's hot. but... I'm sorry but I'm not seeing a downside here? What else are you doing that night? Sitting at home watching tv? Going to the gym? Go bang the woman's brains out, and eat. Have fun, or, show up, barely acknowledge her, flirt with her hot friends that you do not work with, and if none of them take you home, stick around to help your coworker "clean-up" and then spend the night? No downsides. 1
phineas Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 She is recently divorced & doesn't want a commitment. Really? This is surprising? what the guy above me said. You are getting free sex from a hot chick. honestly, what is the problem? If you want a relationship with her that's your mistake because she is freshly divorced.
AlexCross Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 Change up the dynamics. Instead of letting her string you along go to the BBQ with an attitude of indifference, ignore her a little, guarantee she will pursue you. Start a conversation with a bunch of strangers and make them laugh. Let her know that you are the life of the party, but do not include her, then lay the pipe like tomorrow is the end of the world. It is all about reciprocity, but in this case you need to change up the dynamics a bit if you dont like how you are being treated.
Author Sox Man Posted September 9, 2012 Author Posted September 9, 2012 Well that went well. Maybe I failed to mention in my first post that whenever we do anything, it's always on her terms. So, everybody left and I stayed over. She was going to bed, and she tells me " I'm going to bed alone". I tried to kiss her and she tells me no. So I end up on the couch. After sobering up, I just left and went home. I'm so ****ing tired of her ****. Yeah, she may be a nice peace of ass, but that's about it! I'm not one of those guys who believes that I'm entitled to some all the time. but if I like you, it should reciprocated some times. I'm starting to wonder why she got divorced in the first place. And, she leaves me on the couch with her damn dog. I hope that damn thing ****s all over the house. Don't dangle that pussy in front of me, and pull it back whenever ya wont to. That's not cool! That **** ain't cool! The last time, I was at her place, she tells me " I want to kiss you" and I melted, but when I do the same, she balks. No wonder nobody showed up at her party!
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