OleBlue Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Hey all, So, I have been meeting a few women on OkCupid and we been texting around, etc.. but when it comes to actual face-to-face meeting they don't seem to up for it.. I mean it seems like it's always me asking to meet, or when I do they always have something going on, or they just simply don't make time to meet. Anyone else experience this? Why are these women on a dating website if they don't want to alter their schedule to meet someone? Ex. This one girl I was talking to it was going well and I ask her to meet. It's her day off and she isn't really doing anything and she says she's hanging with her best friend or whatever.. She wouldn't just come meet me knowing she won't be off work for awhile, or she wouldn't meet me after work, etc..
smellybelly Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 She didn't want to meet you because it was too last minute and she already had plans for her day off. Plan in advance... Ask her out for next week and ask her to suggest a couple of days that work well for her. I don't think the problem is the women I think it's your approach.
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